Your intuition is telling you that any day now, the talk is about to happen.
You know the "breakup talk".
He has been distancing himself in many ways and things just aren't the same.
The phone calls are infrequent, the dates are fewer, even the lovemaking isn't what it used to be.
What's going on? Panic is setting in and you are more than a bit nervous.
It suddenly occurs to you that the talk he wants to have may be the breakup talk.
So how do you handle yourself when it happens? Be Calm.
I know, more easily said than done.
Men sometimes do not really know what they want and this may be the case.
He also may have met someone else and wants to date her.
It happens.
The main thing to remember is it's never a good idea to let a man think that you cannot live without him, even if you feel that way.
You will become a lot less desirable in his eyes if you are dragging onto his leg as he walks out the door.
Don't do it! Just don't.
When you have the breakup talk, listen to what he has to say.
Don't get upset.
Respond in this way: "I understand what you are saying and if you feel this relationship is not what you want, then I appreciate your honesty and I wish you well.
" Then show him the door.
No yelling, no crying, absolutely no drama.
Leave him with the impression that you are a strong, independent and beautiful woman totally capable of finding an even better man than him, if that is your choice.
Begging and crying are very unattractive to men, and will accomplish absolutely nothing.
It won't make him stay.
It won't change his mind.
It will actually cause him to believe he made the right decision, because obviously you are acting unstable.
But when you do the unexpected, it will make him think all kinds of things.
The kind of things that will cause him to second guess himself and you may find him returning to you within a very short period of time.
If you appear needy or neurotic during the breakup talk, well, you might as well hang it up or be prepared to do a lot of damage control.
So take a deep breath, get centered and internalize the belief that you can do just fine without him.
If you have to move on, you are totally capable of doing so.
And if you are not ready to move on and you believe there is still a chance to make it work, there is help.