Your boyfriend dumped you and it hurt you bad. You also lost your cool and chased him like he was the last man on earth. You couldn't help yourself because you are still very much in love with him. But now you have calmed down a bit and you see that chasing him and begging him to love you again won't get your ex back. Now, you want to learn how to make him regret dumping you.

Once you start chasing a man and telling him you cannot live without him, you give him the control. Your ex boyfriend realizes that as long as he ignores you it will make you humble yourself and beg for his love. That feeds his ego and makes him feel like a guy that's irresistible to women. Feeling that every woman in the world will worship him, he will decide to test his new found power over women.

He will begin dating other women and although every woman won't fall for him, some will. When that happens you will have not only the problem of getting your ex back, but making the other woman go away. Before that happens, you need to get inside his head and deflate his ego. The best way of doing that is to show him you don't want him anymore.

By making your ex boyfriend think you no longer want him, it will make him afraid that no one else will want him either and he will start regretting the day he dumped you. Getting your ex boyfriend back is all a matter of using the right psychology and pushing his emotional hot buttonsthe right way. When he begins to see that he might have lost the woman he loves because of acting foolish, he will start trying to get you back.

When you stop playing his game, you will start taking back the control. Your ex boyfriend will become the one missing his ex girlfriend. When he hears of you going out and having fun with your friends, he will remember the good times he had with you. He might try to contact you to see if you still love him, and this would be a good time to not be around.

Take a vacation or visit friends and relative that live in another city or town. When he can't locate you he will think you might have run off with some other guy. Your ex boyfriend will imagine all sorts of things. He will imagine you in another guy's arms and it will nearly drive him crazy. He will realize that when he dumped you he made a very big mistake.

The ex boyfriend who dumped you, will feel like you are dumping him and see how much it hurts. He will realize the only way to get over this hurt is to get you back. You should let him chase you for a while, but not so long as to make him discouraged. However, when you do take him back, never let him feel too sure of your love. As long as he feels he has to work for your love, he will never dump you again.