So, your boyfriend has strayed and has landed into the arms of some other girl? After you've wiped away sorry tears reeking of self-pity, it is now time to take back what's truly yours.
There are secret ways you can steal back your boyfriend without so much a bat of an eyelash.
These seven points are just a tip of the iceberg: Ask yourself why.
Why in the world would you want to steal back your boyfriend when the very fact that he strayed, means there was something wrong in the relationship from the start? There are many reasons a girl would want to get back with her guy, but is self-esteem, companionship and dependence are yours, then you might as well stay away.
Rebuild your social life.
If your boyfriend has moved on, and you haven't, he hasn't so much done it without a budding social life.
Do the same and you'd be amazed at the attention you would receive from him.
Go out with friends and let them introduce you to people.
Building your network helps you forget about being single again.
Take his number off your phone.
If you want him to come back to you, don't text or call him.
But how do you do that when his number's sitting pretty on your phone? To be really certain you're not tempted, forget about calling or texting him by taking him off your contacts list.
Take him off your social networking contacts.
So you stalk his Facebook account and see that he's posted pictures of him having a great time.
Why do you need to torture yourself by looking at those? There's obviously nothing productive that's going to come out of it except some really bad self-esteem issues, so take him off your list as well.
Look busy.
You're his ex, so if things don't work out with his new lady love, there's a big chance he might be rebounding back...
to you.
When he does call, tell him you're busy.
Showing him you have a life teaches him a lesson, that he won't easily forget.
He will pursue you after realizing how valuable you really are.
Change your look.
If you want to veer away from the looks he was once used to, it's time to give yourself a big makeover.
It will not only enhance your self-esteem.
It will also make you more attractive to the opposite sex, including him.
Have a good time with new friends.
And if all else fails, why not move on too and show him that you know exactly how to have fun? He will soon take notice of how well you've been able to cope and will want to be back in your arms again.
There are secret ways you can steal back your boyfriend without so much a bat of an eyelash.
These seven points are just a tip of the iceberg: Ask yourself why.
Why in the world would you want to steal back your boyfriend when the very fact that he strayed, means there was something wrong in the relationship from the start? There are many reasons a girl would want to get back with her guy, but is self-esteem, companionship and dependence are yours, then you might as well stay away.
Rebuild your social life.
If your boyfriend has moved on, and you haven't, he hasn't so much done it without a budding social life.
Do the same and you'd be amazed at the attention you would receive from him.
Go out with friends and let them introduce you to people.
Building your network helps you forget about being single again.
Take his number off your phone.
If you want him to come back to you, don't text or call him.
But how do you do that when his number's sitting pretty on your phone? To be really certain you're not tempted, forget about calling or texting him by taking him off your contacts list.
Take him off your social networking contacts.
So you stalk his Facebook account and see that he's posted pictures of him having a great time.
Why do you need to torture yourself by looking at those? There's obviously nothing productive that's going to come out of it except some really bad self-esteem issues, so take him off your list as well.
Look busy.
You're his ex, so if things don't work out with his new lady love, there's a big chance he might be rebounding back...
to you.
When he does call, tell him you're busy.
Showing him you have a life teaches him a lesson, that he won't easily forget.
He will pursue you after realizing how valuable you really are.
Change your look.
If you want to veer away from the looks he was once used to, it's time to give yourself a big makeover.
It will not only enhance your self-esteem.
It will also make you more attractive to the opposite sex, including him.
Have a good time with new friends.
And if all else fails, why not move on too and show him that you know exactly how to have fun? He will soon take notice of how well you've been able to cope and will want to be back in your arms again.
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