You should stop having the fear of possibly losing your ex forever.
You can always have them back if you wish to because when there is a will there is always a way.
Not only can you get your ex back, you can make their head twist in wonder and amazement each time they see you.
They will want nothing other than to come for you at all cost because they will find you totally irresistible.
To start with, you will need to take a journey inward.
What I mean is that; you will need to go into yourself and go on a thinking journey.
Think back upon what transpired between you and your ex.
Think of all the disagreements and what actually led to the breakup with your ex.
Take note of all the faults your ex had ever complained about in you and make concerted effort to work on those things.
By working on all those gray areas, you will be putting yourself back in the shape that your ex had always loved to see you in.
If you have gained too much fat and you suspect that it might be one of the reasons for which your ex broke up with you, it will be great if you get rid of those fats.
If the problem your ex finds rather unacceptable in you is smoking, it will be great if you can get rid of the smoking habit.
With this done, you can be sure that you are on the way of winning your ex back.
You will then need to make yourself all the more presentable to the society.
Dress well, eat well and rest well.
You will also need to socialize more and involve yourself in stuffs that you actually enjoy doing.
This will end up helping to bring out your inner glamour and radiance to the fore.
Your ex will surely see this glamour and will find you rather irresistible.
Don't be surprised if they retrace their steps back to you eagerly seeking for reconciliation with you.