If you have decided that it was a mistake to let your girlfriend go then you are probably wondering how to win your ex girlfriend back.
Now that you have gone through the realization of what life is like without her you probably are thinking that you want to win your ex girlfriend back forever.
You do not want that pain and heartache again.
You will have to take some time and to evaluate the situation and figure out what you should do at this point.
Learning how to win your ex girlfriend back will mean that you need to make some changes and take a forever approach to getting her back.
First you must admit that you made a mistake.
A mistake that cost you the relationship.
You have to own up to your mistake and admit that you were wrong if you want to win back your ex girlfriend.
Take a good look at yourself and ask yourself why you did whatever you did.
Be true to yourself when figuring this out.
Once you have identified your mistakes and the reasons for your mistakes you probably feel regret or guilt.
This is normal and you should feel this way.
If you do not then you have not admitted to yourself that you did something wrong.
You can not win your ex girlfriend back if you think you have not made any mistakes.
Now that you have been true to yourself and have admitted guilt to yourself you need to assess the situation.
Is there anything left to build back? Can you build a relationship with your ex girlfriend again or is it too far gone? With any luck there is still a foundation to build a new relationship on.
Although you are willing to try again this does not mean that your ex girlfriend wants to work it out.
It will be a lot harder to win back your ex girlfriend if she has decided that she does not want you back and has moved on.
If your ex girlfriend has in fact moved on you may not be able to get her back.
If your ex girlfriend is willing to talk to you then let her talk.
She may yell and scream and vent all her frustrations at you, telling you how big your mistake was but you are going to have to let her do this.
This is no time to be defensive.
You want her to listen to you now is the time to listen to her.
Everything that she says you should have already realized through your own evaluation but hearing her say it may have more of an impact on you.
Respect how she feels and what she says about the situation.
You must treat her with respect if you want forgiveness.
All of this may be tough to do and hear but if you want to win your ex girlfriend back you will do these steps and see what happens next.