If you are the victim of a recent break-up, you may be trying to find a way to win your ex back.
You will need to invest some time into this process.
You will not be able to win them back instantly.
Some people unfortunately, do not consider this.
They often overwhelm their ex with a frenzied rush to win them back, and crush any hope of winning their ex back.
This scene is all too familiar for most.
A guy decides to go out for a few drinks to ease the pain of the bitter break-up he has just suffered.
He usually drinks a few too many, and then decides to give his ex-girlfriend a call around two o'clock in the morning, waking her up to tell her she has made a big mistake in breaking up.
For obvious reasons, this is not a very successful strategy.
Still people try this time and time again, every single day.
Why do they do this? People often have a hard time controlling their emotions, and want to fix the problem immediately, but for the best chance at reconciling things with your ex, you should practice patience and be realistic.
If you are overly aggressive, your ex will likely return the aggression or push you away, which is not helpful in winning them back.
Oftentimes, this results in even more arguing and disagreement, which only further hinders your chances for winning your ex back.
It is better to approach the process passively.
Do not call your ex every few minutes or even every day.
Eventually your ex will miss you, so allow them the time and space to do so.
Even when you choose to break up with someone, you often maintain strong feelings for that person.
These feelings do not disappear the moment a relationship is ended.