Why is it that when we find the man we believe is the one, he suddenly decides that he wants a break or that he needs some distance? When the man you adore tells you he doesn't want to be with you anymore it can literally feel as though your heart is breaking.
You may, in fact, feel physically ill and once he's gone, it's hard to focus on anything but how much pain you're in.
It doesn't have to be this way though.
You don't have to face a future that doesn't include him.
Once you understand the best ways to get your man back, you can actually not only get back together with him, but you can ensure he loves you now more than ever.
One of the best ways to get your man back may be a bit surprising but it's highly effective.
You've got to ignore him.
Men always want the things they can't have.
That's the reason we always hear them talking about a car they wished they could afford or tickets to a sporting event they missed out on.
If you use that same principle in your relationship with your ex, you're bound to get him back.
If you've make it crystal clear to him that you're sitting on the sidelines waiting for him to come back, he's never going to want you back.
Drop out of a sight for a few weeks.
Don't call him, or talk to him at all.
Give him some space and before long he'll be wondering about you and he'll be the one calling you.
Doing nothing but crying and pouting after the break up just isn't going to accomplish anything.
Another of the best ways to get your man back is to focus on improving yourself.
Take the time you two are apart to transform yourself into an irresistible creature.
This doesn't mean you have to go on a crash diet.
It does mean that you need to work on building your self confidence, chase after some goals you've been putting off and get out and have fun with friends.
You want to knock his socks off when he sees you again and you can do that by becoming a better version of you.
Once he sees you he's going to crave you all over again.