I'm assuming if you're reading this you are in completely the same situation as I was in looking for a solution on how to save your marriage and have serious marriage issues which most likely are going to result into a divorce.
If this is not the case, then perhaps you're afraid of this, and that it may happen to your marriage.
If you fit into these descriptions then I completely feel for you because I have experienced exactly what you are going through and I really know how difficult this is.
But let me stop you, this is not the time to cry and get emotional, this is the time to let you know what I exactly did to save my marriage.
I won't waste your time, to cut a long story short I tried everything under the sun to try figure out how to save my marriage; it seemed like I had lost the fight before it even begun.
After endless trying to save I came into a heavy realisation that I wasn't able to calm myself and I then took the action of seeking outside advice.
This was the BIG change and was the reason I saved my marriage.
The impact was huge from what the outside source of advice had taught me, and now I would like to pass this onto you.
Your first small step I took on how to save my marriage is to mentally find your calm and peace of mind.
A desperate mind will only overwhelm and cause a desperate action which in turn has more harm in saving your already barely existent marriage.
You want to participate in caring and considerate actions, not reckless knee jerk reactions which turn into a pathetic and desperate attempt at saving your marriage.
It is completely essential you calm down first and control your emotions.
Once you have done this, you are one step closer to saving your marriage like I did; now your next task is to start acting in the correct manor.
In psychology there is a method called elusion which is where it involves you to become elusive.
Bare in mind you spouse is most likely to be fed up with your marriage, and it is so essential for you to be elusive in this situation.
You spouse will start to miss you because you will become inaccessible and thus reduces his "fed up with you" feelings.
Secondly the common human nature of having what you can't have will work to your advantage.
Your spouse will find you much more attractive and challenging, this will work in your favour as it is the exact route I took on how to save my marriage.
If this is not the case, then perhaps you're afraid of this, and that it may happen to your marriage.
If you fit into these descriptions then I completely feel for you because I have experienced exactly what you are going through and I really know how difficult this is.
But let me stop you, this is not the time to cry and get emotional, this is the time to let you know what I exactly did to save my marriage.
I won't waste your time, to cut a long story short I tried everything under the sun to try figure out how to save my marriage; it seemed like I had lost the fight before it even begun.
After endless trying to save I came into a heavy realisation that I wasn't able to calm myself and I then took the action of seeking outside advice.
This was the BIG change and was the reason I saved my marriage.
The impact was huge from what the outside source of advice had taught me, and now I would like to pass this onto you.
Your first small step I took on how to save my marriage is to mentally find your calm and peace of mind.
A desperate mind will only overwhelm and cause a desperate action which in turn has more harm in saving your already barely existent marriage.
You want to participate in caring and considerate actions, not reckless knee jerk reactions which turn into a pathetic and desperate attempt at saving your marriage.
It is completely essential you calm down first and control your emotions.
Once you have done this, you are one step closer to saving your marriage like I did; now your next task is to start acting in the correct manor.
In psychology there is a method called elusion which is where it involves you to become elusive.
Bare in mind you spouse is most likely to be fed up with your marriage, and it is so essential for you to be elusive in this situation.
You spouse will start to miss you because you will become inaccessible and thus reduces his "fed up with you" feelings.
Secondly the common human nature of having what you can't have will work to your advantage.
Your spouse will find you much more attractive and challenging, this will work in your favour as it is the exact route I took on how to save my marriage.
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