Whether you are the one who 'broke it off' or the one 'broken' you will suffer some sadness because of the breakup.
Knowing how to get 'on with your life' in a healthy way is important.
If there were serious issues like abuse, don't even THINK of glancing backwards! And if there weren't serious issues understand that at least one of you made the decision to 'call it quits.
' If a future still exists for you and the ex it will happen or NOT happen...
with TIME, 'change' or 'chance.
' Your work right now is to live life FORWARD.
Make a Plan to Change What You Can Do yourself some 'favors' for a while.
Go and have your hair done, get a make-over and buy a few new clothes! Change your hair color or buy something 'special' you have always wanted.
Pamper yourself for a while...
it works for the 'soul' like gasoline works for engines! If you don't like your job, take steps to find a new one...
and consider taking some classes to improve your skills while also broadening your outlook on life.
Change Your Environment...
And People Are there are places that you have 'never been?' Take time to go there! Even going to a bowling alley when it is a 'new environment' for you will provide memory FREE fun and new friends to meet! Make sure you are OPEN to new friends and acquaintances, but DON'T look for 'someone else' too soon.
Rebound relationships usually end up verifying the old saying, "Don't jump from the frying pan into the fire.
" Begin to really SEE the people around you...
ALL the people.
Experts say we become set in patterns sometimes that make us continue to choose the same type of person as we had in former relationships.
Being aware of others and observing them PLUS taking time before 'jumping again' will help change your pattern of failure.
All Good Things Come With Time Realize that only time truly heals.
So, face every day like it's the proverbial "First day of the rest of your life.
" Keep a circle of friends and family around you for a while and plan every day with an agenda of 'things to do.
' If you find yourself sad a lot, volunteer your services at a local shelter, nursing home or other place where people are in need.
It's a 'time tested' truth that giving of ourselves to help others somehow helps 'put US back together!'
Knowing how to get 'on with your life' in a healthy way is important.
If there were serious issues like abuse, don't even THINK of glancing backwards! And if there weren't serious issues understand that at least one of you made the decision to 'call it quits.
' If a future still exists for you and the ex it will happen or NOT happen...
with TIME, 'change' or 'chance.
' Your work right now is to live life FORWARD.
Make a Plan to Change What You Can Do yourself some 'favors' for a while.
Go and have your hair done, get a make-over and buy a few new clothes! Change your hair color or buy something 'special' you have always wanted.
Pamper yourself for a while...
it works for the 'soul' like gasoline works for engines! If you don't like your job, take steps to find a new one...
and consider taking some classes to improve your skills while also broadening your outlook on life.
Change Your Environment...
And People Are there are places that you have 'never been?' Take time to go there! Even going to a bowling alley when it is a 'new environment' for you will provide memory FREE fun and new friends to meet! Make sure you are OPEN to new friends and acquaintances, but DON'T look for 'someone else' too soon.
Rebound relationships usually end up verifying the old saying, "Don't jump from the frying pan into the fire.
" Begin to really SEE the people around you...
ALL the people.
Experts say we become set in patterns sometimes that make us continue to choose the same type of person as we had in former relationships.
Being aware of others and observing them PLUS taking time before 'jumping again' will help change your pattern of failure.
All Good Things Come With Time Realize that only time truly heals.
So, face every day like it's the proverbial "First day of the rest of your life.
" Keep a circle of friends and family around you for a while and plan every day with an agenda of 'things to do.
' If you find yourself sad a lot, volunteer your services at a local shelter, nursing home or other place where people are in need.
It's a 'time tested' truth that giving of ourselves to help others somehow helps 'put US back together!'
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