A girl loves a guy who can make her laugh, it may be an old saying but it is true nonetheless and if you are trying to meet women a funny conversation starter is a great way to go.
The key to success is figuring new and original conversation starters, funny is great but not if she has heard it a thousand times already! To get you started think about the different things you can get her to laugh about, there are three major categories.
Laugh at You Self-deprecating humor is fantastic if you do it correctly.
You see if you overdo it, you appear self-conscious and unsure of yourself.
On the other hand, if you come at it half way you come across as a jerk.
Saying something like "I would make a terrible boyfriend" while simultaneously indicating that you do not believe it is the key to making this type of pick up work.
If you want to do some homework, think Hugh Grant! Laugh at Herself Beautiful women, particularly those who are exceptionally attractive, are always bombarded with compliments.
This means you need to knock her off her game somewhat and make her laugh at herself.
Some would call this the funny/jerk move, and it works time and again.
Tease her (gently) about her hair, outfit or handbag.
Note: never choose a physical characteristic as you never know when this could backfire.
To you her nose may be the most-perfect thing you have ever seen and making fun of it appears harmless, however it could just as easily be a sensitive subject and an instant turn off.
Laugh at the Situation Think about the last time you wanted to approach a woman but chickened out, how did you feel? Use this the next time you want to catch a girl's attention, make her laugh at the situation and you are in! For example, you could walk up and say, "Well, this is awkward," when she gives you a puzzled look, say something like "Meeting a beautiful woman in a place like this and I left all my pick-up lines at home!" Finding Humor It is also important that you be able to pick up on humorous opportunities on the fly.
For instance, if you notice a couple arguing near by you could comment, a bit sarcastically, about how close the two seem.
Watch to see how many men she rejects in the course of a night and attempt to break the ice by commenting on how mean she is.
Other potential conversation starters: - Ask her what polar bears are good for, answer- breaking the ice! - If you bump into a beautiful woman on "accident", smile as if startled and ask her if she just touched your butt.
- Ask her if she is stuck up, followed quickly by "I have been her all of five minutes and you haven't bought me a drink.
Attitude What it all comes down to is your attitude, if you can exude humor and confidence women will be hard pressed to ignore you.
Deep down women want a strong, take charge kind of guy but one who can be gentle and funny as well.
Final Thoughts Getting a woman to laugh is a great way to start a conversation, but this talent does not come naturally to everyone.
In order for this type of approach to work the humor needs to feel natural, which means you may need to practice both at home and in public.
Practicing your openers and one-liners is also a good way to build your confidence.
Regardless of the type of humor you go with, practice makes perfect.