Getting an ex girlfriend to take you back after a break up, is no small thing. I know you miss her, and wish there was some magic you could work immediately to make her run back into your arms. But, break ups can be complicated and messy. However, many couples do find their way back to each other, so this article will provide you with a few great ideas to get her back.
Idea #1 – Become Her Friend Again
The reality is, your ex girlfriend probably isn't ready to accept you back into her life as a boyfriend. In all likelihood, there are some things you had to do before you won her love the first time around. The second time is no different. You will need to go all the way back to the beginning and start fresh.
Before you can regain her love, you need to win back her trust as a friend. So, this means holding back on the sweet talk and simply treating her like someone you like and admire. When you see her, or talk to her, be sure to keep things casually friendly. Engage in some small talk, and, most importantly, listen to what she has to say.
Idea #2 – Set Some Goals for Yourself
A woman loves a man who appears he is going somewhere in life. Grab some note cards and, on each card, write down one goal you'd like to achieve. It may be big or small, but it has to be something that you can realistically strive for and make happen with some effort. Pick the one goal that is easiest to achieve and start there.
Make a commitment to yourself that you are going to take small steps to make this first goal a reality. You have to really follow through on this. When your ex notices that you're not just sitting there like a lump on a log, she'll be impressed.
Idea #3 – What Can You Do to Be a Better Boyfriend?
She's not with you right now for a reason: She finds you lacking in some areas. Before you two broke up, she might have complained about some things you did that she didn't like. Maybe you blew off these complaints, or decided they didn't have any merit. However, the things about you that annoy her probably have a lot to do with why she doesn't want to be with you.
Therefore, it's in your best interest to do what you can to fix these things about yourself. I'm not saying that you have to change overnight, because this isn't possible, but you can take steps to make improvements in the way you approach things. Once you begin to make positive changes in behavior and attitude, she will notice.
Idea #1 – Become Her Friend Again
The reality is, your ex girlfriend probably isn't ready to accept you back into her life as a boyfriend. In all likelihood, there are some things you had to do before you won her love the first time around. The second time is no different. You will need to go all the way back to the beginning and start fresh.
Before you can regain her love, you need to win back her trust as a friend. So, this means holding back on the sweet talk and simply treating her like someone you like and admire. When you see her, or talk to her, be sure to keep things casually friendly. Engage in some small talk, and, most importantly, listen to what she has to say.
Idea #2 – Set Some Goals for Yourself
A woman loves a man who appears he is going somewhere in life. Grab some note cards and, on each card, write down one goal you'd like to achieve. It may be big or small, but it has to be something that you can realistically strive for and make happen with some effort. Pick the one goal that is easiest to achieve and start there.
Make a commitment to yourself that you are going to take small steps to make this first goal a reality. You have to really follow through on this. When your ex notices that you're not just sitting there like a lump on a log, she'll be impressed.
Idea #3 – What Can You Do to Be a Better Boyfriend?
She's not with you right now for a reason: She finds you lacking in some areas. Before you two broke up, she might have complained about some things you did that she didn't like. Maybe you blew off these complaints, or decided they didn't have any merit. However, the things about you that annoy her probably have a lot to do with why she doesn't want to be with you.
Therefore, it's in your best interest to do what you can to fix these things about yourself. I'm not saying that you have to change overnight, because this isn't possible, but you can take steps to make improvements in the way you approach things. Once you begin to make positive changes in behavior and attitude, she will notice.
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