Are you in trouble with your marriage? Do you need To fix a broken marriage? In the year 2009, you are not alone! In fact, due to this economic crisis we have experienced throughout the world, there are a lot of marriages under threat of marriage breakup.
Whats the reason for this you say? The reason why many couples are on the verge of marriage breakdown is because married couples, especially young married couples find it increasingly difficult to maintain married life.
One of the big reasons why marriage breakup happens in a recession like this is because of the loss of either spouses job puts financial pressure and strain on their marriage.
Worrying about how they are going to have enough money to pay all their household bills each month like their monthly mortgage bill or money for putting food on the table for them and their young family.
Young couples see an "easy" short term solution...
and that is to break up the marriage and perhaps divorce.
They believe that this solution is the best, when really..
..
its probably the worst case scenario.
This is especially true if the troubled married couple has not even made one single effort to fix their broken marriage! An Attempt to fix their marriage could result in them being able to conquer their troubles and worries in married life and begin to live a more stress free and troubled free life with each other.
In addition to what I have said, it is very possible to save your marriage and begin to fix it.
As long as you know what you are doing.
This process is very possible in achieving great results.
Its not going to be the easiest thing in the world to do.
However, with the right guidance you will make a huge positive impact to fixing your marriage! Below are some of the Steps you can use To correct the problems you are having in your marriage.
1.
Understand the Problems and Issues The first step in fixing a broken marriage is to first identify all the problems you are encountering in your marriage.
Write them down clearly with your spouse.
Brainstorm it together as you both come up with all the issues you are both experiencing in your troubled marriage.
Once complete, move to the next step.
2.
Compromise & learn to Forgive Once you have identified all the issues you are having in your marriage, its now time to compromise with each other and forgive each other for all the problems you have encountered together as a married couple.
Nobody is perfect in this world, and people certainly act differently in stressful situations.
Forgive and make up! Understand that its only human to act like this, but at the same time know that their is a better way to behave under stressful situations and commit to making changes in that part of your married life! 3.
Begin To Fix & Be Happy Again.
Now that you have learnt to forgive each other, the next step is to begin the healing process.
This involves fixing the problems that you have identified in step 1 and making a commitment with each other to solve these issues out thats causing stress and strain in your marriage.
You can attend a marriage counselor if you can afford it.
They do vary in price! But usually they are about $120 a session.
There are numerous sessions you will need to attend in order to fix your broken marriage.
It all depends on how damaged your marriage is.
However, you can always use a guide book in order to fix your marriage.
These guide books are usually a lot cheaper then a marriage counselor! They also work extremely well when used correctly.
If you are under financial pressure, then perhaps one of these guides is a good solution for you.