Getting back together with your ex may very well be one of the biggest decisions of your life.
Not only did you make the decision to initially be together with this person, but now that you have dumped them, you want them back.
Playing with people's emotions can be a very violent idea.
However, if you are sure you want to keep going, here are a list of tips and tricks that you can use to score your ex back in a relationship.
The first thing you should do when you are trying to get back together is give your ex a reason why.
Just because you want to is not a reason! You need to tell them why exactly you are going to get back together, how you have changed, how they have changed and why you deserve another chance to be with them.
If you do not give them all of this information, and more, you do not deserve to have another relationship with them.
Relationships are about being open and communicating with people, not hiding your reasons for trying to get your relationship to work again.
Now that you have found your way into your ex's heart, you are going to need to give them everything that you have.
This means telling them that you are sorry, why you were wrong, and basically kissing their ass.
They do not have to let you back into a relationship, rather they can let you.
It is all about trust, and if you are the one who broke the relationship off, it is going to be that much harder.
Not only do you have to really kiss ass, but you have to hope that the bridges that were cut between the two of you can be fixed.
Blackmail is another technique that you can use to get back together with your ex.
While it is not a technique that you should use, if you have something on them, tell them that.
Do not bluff, because you will have nothing to show if they call your bluff and you lie.
Blackmail can be done two ways, so make sure that you use all the other options that you have available before you consider it.
Many people do not have very good relationships if they are placed via blackmail, as you are not trusting the other person and their emotions.
After you have given your ex plenty of time to give you an answer, take it for final.
They will say either yes or no.
You need to respect their answer and give them their space if they say no.
Do not call them, harass them or insult them.
It simply is not going to work with you.
Now that you have tried to get your ex back, you should have no relationship regrets.
While things may be difficult for the next little while, you can make the relationship work.
Do not lie, cheat or steal and everything should work out just fine for the future.