If you were ever in a relationship that ended up in a breakup, you know how devastating the whole experience feels.
When you look back you know that there were signs that things were not good, but you always think that it is a temporary thing and you stay in this relationship thinking that it will get better.
You know that the red flags were there, but you just choose to ignore them.
1.
One sign of trouble in your relationship is when there is no physical contact.
If your partner looses interest in sex, that is a sure sign of trouble.
In every relationship there are times that you are more active sexually and there are times that not much goes on.
That might be the norm, but if your partner has no interest in the physical relationship and it lasts for a long time, then you should get suspicious, it is not normal.
2.
Another sign to watch for is total lack of physical contact, he stops holding your hand, he stops putting his arm on your shoulder when you sit together, and just avoids any physical contact with you.
You noticed that your partner moves away when you try to touch him.
You get the impression that he feels uncomfortable when you try to touch him.
3.
If you caught your partner in lies, even when it's a small white lie, could be a sign of trouble.
If you think that the lie was small and harmless you must ask yourself, why would he lie about such a little thing, does he have something bigger to hide.
When you catch him lying, you get suspicious and wonder what he is hiding from you.
Before you make the final decision that your relationship is over, have a talk with you partner and try to find out if there is something that is bothering him that he want to talk about.
Sometimes our daily burdens and overwhelming and we just withdraw into ourselves.
Try to find out if there is a problem at work that is making him jumpy or there might be another person that is occupying his mind so that he is reacting to your in a negative way.
If you both decided that your relationship is worth saving and you want to work on how to avoid the 3 red flags in your relationship you must commit to being more open with each other and talk problems out before they become a mountain.
When you look back you know that there were signs that things were not good, but you always think that it is a temporary thing and you stay in this relationship thinking that it will get better.
You know that the red flags were there, but you just choose to ignore them.
1.
One sign of trouble in your relationship is when there is no physical contact.
If your partner looses interest in sex, that is a sure sign of trouble.
In every relationship there are times that you are more active sexually and there are times that not much goes on.
That might be the norm, but if your partner has no interest in the physical relationship and it lasts for a long time, then you should get suspicious, it is not normal.
2.
Another sign to watch for is total lack of physical contact, he stops holding your hand, he stops putting his arm on your shoulder when you sit together, and just avoids any physical contact with you.
You noticed that your partner moves away when you try to touch him.
You get the impression that he feels uncomfortable when you try to touch him.
3.
If you caught your partner in lies, even when it's a small white lie, could be a sign of trouble.
If you think that the lie was small and harmless you must ask yourself, why would he lie about such a little thing, does he have something bigger to hide.
When you catch him lying, you get suspicious and wonder what he is hiding from you.
Before you make the final decision that your relationship is over, have a talk with you partner and try to find out if there is something that is bothering him that he want to talk about.
Sometimes our daily burdens and overwhelming and we just withdraw into ourselves.
Try to find out if there is a problem at work that is making him jumpy or there might be another person that is occupying his mind so that he is reacting to your in a negative way.
If you both decided that your relationship is worth saving and you want to work on how to avoid the 3 red flags in your relationship you must commit to being more open with each other and talk problems out before they become a mountain.
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