Still married, so it's not over yet Try to understand that a separation is just that, a separation, It isn't a divorce.
Even if one of you have moved out of the house, you're still married, so there is still a chance that things between you can work out.
If she's still wearing the wedding ring, that's a major indication that things can be worked out.
Where did it go wrong? Identify the problem; figure out why the two of you decided to separate in the first place.
It could be a lack of communication, or maybe time simply got the best of you.
Whatever the case, talk about and get to know why it went wrong.
Once you do, you'll be on the fast track to working it out.
Be the man she fell in love with Not too long ago, she promised to dedicate the rest of her life to you.
You have to go back to being the man you were.
As time goes on, people change, but you can still find creative ways to show her you're still the man she loves.
Try writing her love notes, buying her candy and flowers, or maybe just telling her how you feel more often.
Seek some professional help During the separation phase of a marriage, you can still talk to a professional about the problem.
Try talking to a counselor one on one and if she's willing to join, go together so you can both present your sides of the story.
Sometimes an unbiased third party can help you gain an understanding to one another's feelings.
Alone time, together The trials and tribulations of the world can get the best of you from time to time.
Work, school, bills, mortgage, it can be a lot for you to deal with.
Over time, it can take its toll on your marriage.
So, try taking a break from the rest of the world.
The two of you just get away, spend some quality time together.
No talking about your problems, and let the rest of the world simply fade away.
Just enjoy one another.
Alone time, alone As important as it is that the two of you have some time together, it's equally important that you spend some time apart.
Take some time to reflect on your situation; how you ended up in this position, what you're doing to solve it and what has to be done to ensure that it doesn't happen again.
Give her some space She has to be given the space to figure things out on her own.
The same way you need time to reflect on everything, so does she.
It's okay to let her know how you feel and why, but you have to allow her the time she needs to deal with it all.