Ok genius, you are saying to yourself, "I dumped my girlfriend", and now you want to get her back. Don't make the mistakes of other desperate guys trying to get their girlfriends back. You need to move quickly but not too quickly.
Most likely you have been trying to think up ways to get her back. In fact, I am sure you have been going to great extremes to accomplish this. Have you been sending her expensive gifts? Are you frantically searching for ways to get her attention? This is not the way to prove to her how you feel.
You are going to have to be much more creative and crafty if you want to get her back. These tactics are not serving your purpose because they are just to cliché and predictable. Your girlfriend is looking for more from you. You need to show her more honest and sincere efforts.
Even if she truly wants you back, the girlfriend that you dumped is going to make you climb the tallest mountains and swim the widest seas before she agrees to allow you to get her back. You have your work cut out for yourself.
Surely, you hurt your girlfriend's feelings by dumping her. It is also probable that you damaged her self esteem and pride. So as you say to yourself, "I dumped my girlfriend", keep in mind that most women scorn are revengeful at different levels each in their own way. If your heart is honestly set on winning her back your ego better be prepared to endure a bit of payback.
It is time for you to be honest with yourself as well. You must figure out in your head what it is that made you decide to dump her. You will then be able to take the time out to explain your motives if that is what she requests of you in order to start her healing process; which is key to taking you back.
She may require a committed promise and truthful apology from you to get through this and it is up to you to grant her these wishes if you want to get her back.
Do this in the most truthful and sincere manner possible.
What ever you do, please do not allow her animosity against you turn into abuse. People make mistakes. This is no reason to allow the person you love to make you into a punching bag. You deserve better. Be humble and apologetic; not foolish!
To get her back, you will have to show her that you are willing to make a great effort to make things right again. Don't settle for being her door mat because you are sorry and regretful about what you did. Be patient. If each of you still has feelings for the other, you should have good luck finding your way back together.
Most likely you have been trying to think up ways to get her back. In fact, I am sure you have been going to great extremes to accomplish this. Have you been sending her expensive gifts? Are you frantically searching for ways to get her attention? This is not the way to prove to her how you feel.
You are going to have to be much more creative and crafty if you want to get her back. These tactics are not serving your purpose because they are just to cliché and predictable. Your girlfriend is looking for more from you. You need to show her more honest and sincere efforts.
Even if she truly wants you back, the girlfriend that you dumped is going to make you climb the tallest mountains and swim the widest seas before she agrees to allow you to get her back. You have your work cut out for yourself.
Surely, you hurt your girlfriend's feelings by dumping her. It is also probable that you damaged her self esteem and pride. So as you say to yourself, "I dumped my girlfriend", keep in mind that most women scorn are revengeful at different levels each in their own way. If your heart is honestly set on winning her back your ego better be prepared to endure a bit of payback.
It is time for you to be honest with yourself as well. You must figure out in your head what it is that made you decide to dump her. You will then be able to take the time out to explain your motives if that is what she requests of you in order to start her healing process; which is key to taking you back.
She may require a committed promise and truthful apology from you to get through this and it is up to you to grant her these wishes if you want to get her back.
Do this in the most truthful and sincere manner possible.
What ever you do, please do not allow her animosity against you turn into abuse. People make mistakes. This is no reason to allow the person you love to make you into a punching bag. You deserve better. Be humble and apologetic; not foolish!
To get her back, you will have to show her that you are willing to make a great effort to make things right again. Don't settle for being her door mat because you are sorry and regretful about what you did. Be patient. If each of you still has feelings for the other, you should have good luck finding your way back together.
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