Do you find women baffling? Do you wonder what women want? Have you often wondered what the secret is of how to attract and please a woman? Even though everyone is different, there ARE certain qualities in men that naturally attract women, and make them more likely to want those men as boyfriends and lovers.
If you have an ex girlfriend you still want to keep in your life, or if you just find yourself getting stuck in the Friend Zone with women you would like to date, then you may be giving out the wrong vibes.
Here are the basic things that are important to women when they decide whether they want to date a man.
Remember this isn't an intellectual decision, as attraction is an instinctive thing that most people feel when they first meet someone; so you need to start off on the right foot.
Keep your confidence high by having ambitions and interests that fill your life with purpose.
A man who knows where he is going always appears more masculine and powerful that one who doesn't.
Being able to talk about your dreams and ambitions will show her that you are a man to be reckoned with.
It will also express your individuality and set you apart from the crowd.
Paying attention to your appearance will help to boost your confidence.
Knowing that you look good is excellent for your self-esteem, so make sure you are well-groomed and dressed.
Get some advice if you aren't sure what looks good on you.
This is a natural biological trigger, and has been there since long before feminism.
Knowing where you are going creates a powerful first impression.
It stimulates a feeling of security and trust.
Have ideas about things to do and places to go, especially on your first dates.
Turning up and asking HER where she wants to go on a first date makes you look wet and wussy.
Even if she has her own ideas, she will still expect you to have thought about it.
So have some plans and make suggestions rather than waiting for her to take the lead.
If you want her to be attracted to you, you need be the man in the relationship; which means not waiting for her to organise things for you.
Don't let things happen to you; be the man who takes charge and makes things happen.
If your hobbies and spending time with your friends is more important to you, then you are not mature enough yet to have a girlfriend.
Spending time with a girl is something you should WANT to do if you are dating her.
It shouldn't be a struggle or a 'duty'.
If it is, then she is the wrong girl.
And don't check out the competition when you are with her.
It's very rude and insulting to be obviously checking out other women when you are a date; and guaranteed to ensure that you won't get a second one.
Keep the talent spotting for when you are with your mates.
If she's gone to a lot of trouble to look pretty for you, then tell her so.
And the same goes when she does something special for you.
Compliments are much more effective if they are personal.
So don't just say how pretty she looks; notice something particular about her appearance and comment on it.
Shoes, a belt, a necklace or the colour of her eyes; it doesn't matter as long as it is something special about her.
Being playful and able to laugh at life shows confidence and control, and is very attractive to women.
But remember to laugh with her and not at her.
Making her the butt of your jokes will kill any attraction stone dead.
Dates that involve doing things can be more original, relaxing and fun than the standard dinner-and-a-movie.
Find out what she enjoys and plan a date around that.
It will be far more memorable for her, and it will make you stand out from the crowd.
What Women Want A woman wants to feel special when she is with you.
She wants to feel that you chose her because she had something that no other woman could give you.
She doesn't want to feel that you would have settled for anything in a skirt, barring a Scotsman.
Work on giving her these things and you will find she is happy to stick around for the long-term.
Don't forget that women are attracted to masculinity in men, so show her by your confidence and leadership that you can be the man she wants.
If you have an ex girlfriend you still want to keep in your life, or if you just find yourself getting stuck in the Friend Zone with women you would like to date, then you may be giving out the wrong vibes.
Here are the basic things that are important to women when they decide whether they want to date a man.
Remember this isn't an intellectual decision, as attraction is an instinctive thing that most people feel when they first meet someone; so you need to start off on the right foot.
- Confidence
Keep your confidence high by having ambitions and interests that fill your life with purpose.
A man who knows where he is going always appears more masculine and powerful that one who doesn't.
Being able to talk about your dreams and ambitions will show her that you are a man to be reckoned with.
It will also express your individuality and set you apart from the crowd.
Paying attention to your appearance will help to boost your confidence.
Knowing that you look good is excellent for your self-esteem, so make sure you are well-groomed and dressed.
Get some advice if you aren't sure what looks good on you.
- Leadership
This is a natural biological trigger, and has been there since long before feminism.
Knowing where you are going creates a powerful first impression.
It stimulates a feeling of security and trust.
Have ideas about things to do and places to go, especially on your first dates.
Turning up and asking HER where she wants to go on a first date makes you look wet and wussy.
Even if she has her own ideas, she will still expect you to have thought about it.
So have some plans and make suggestions rather than waiting for her to take the lead.
If you want her to be attracted to you, you need be the man in the relationship; which means not waiting for her to organise things for you.
Don't let things happen to you; be the man who takes charge and makes things happen.
- Attention
If your hobbies and spending time with your friends is more important to you, then you are not mature enough yet to have a girlfriend.
Spending time with a girl is something you should WANT to do if you are dating her.
It shouldn't be a struggle or a 'duty'.
If it is, then she is the wrong girl.
And don't check out the competition when you are with her.
It's very rude and insulting to be obviously checking out other women when you are a date; and guaranteed to ensure that you won't get a second one.
Keep the talent spotting for when you are with your mates.
- Appreciation
If she's gone to a lot of trouble to look pretty for you, then tell her so.
And the same goes when she does something special for you.
Compliments are much more effective if they are personal.
So don't just say how pretty she looks; notice something particular about her appearance and comment on it.
Shoes, a belt, a necklace or the colour of her eyes; it doesn't matter as long as it is something special about her.
- Fun
Being playful and able to laugh at life shows confidence and control, and is very attractive to women.
But remember to laugh with her and not at her.
Making her the butt of your jokes will kill any attraction stone dead.
Dates that involve doing things can be more original, relaxing and fun than the standard dinner-and-a-movie.
Find out what she enjoys and plan a date around that.
It will be far more memorable for her, and it will make you stand out from the crowd.
What Women Want A woman wants to feel special when she is with you.
She wants to feel that you chose her because she had something that no other woman could give you.
She doesn't want to feel that you would have settled for anything in a skirt, barring a Scotsman.
Work on giving her these things and you will find she is happy to stick around for the long-term.
Don't forget that women are attracted to masculinity in men, so show her by your confidence and leadership that you can be the man she wants.
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