Are you are one of the many people who want to get back together with their ex and do not know how to do about it? It's not a difficult thing to do, it only requires time and tact.
Here are some things to do.
If the break up is still fresh, you need to give your ex space.
This space is required because emotions are still fresh and probably spilling.
In relationships; we should learn to understand when it is time to give our loved one; breathing space.
It's at times like this that space is needed the most.
Your ex might still be in love with you but does not want to be with you anymore.
You need to let go for a moment and give he/she time to miss you.
Let them experience a world without you and you should also know what it feels like to live in a world without your ex.
The time you would both spend without each other would help your ex realize how much she/he needs you.
While you are spending apart; get on with you live and grab as much fun as you can.
During this period of break, you also have to search your mind and be sure that you want to continue with the relationship.
Ask yourself if you truly love this person (the answer is most likely a yes).
You should also ask yourself if there is a chance that your ex will like to have you back.
If you decide that things can still work out between you both; it is time to move on to the next move.
At this stage, you have to be wise and calculating.
Make your ex see you as a friend and make him/her very comfortable around you.
Do not bring up the topic of going back together yet and do not seem possessive, jealous or frustrated.
As friends, anything is possible.
Being friends with your ex would give you the opportunity to show him/her that everything can still get back to its former state.
You should also show your ex that he/she still needs and wants you.
If you two are not friends, you will not be able to communicate and you will not be able to iron things out.
Besides, if you two are not friends, the love will not be able to spark up once more.