Many people moan about there being a lack of singles to flirt with.
For example, women might joke that all the good men are gay or married.
But people who claim that nobody is available just aren't trying hard enough! There are plenty of eligible singles out there; you just have to learn where they congregate.
Some people are turned off by the idea of bars.
They believe that since they dislike bars and nightclubs, then there isn't anywhere to go.
However, most lasting relationships were initiated in places other than watering holes.
After all, people don't make the best dating decisions when intoxicated! A great place to start can be your place of employment.
After all, you probably spend half of your waking hours there anyway.
Furthermore, you probably have a lot in common with people who have selected the same industry.
An added bonus is you know that your person of interest is gainfully employed! Of course, dating a co-worker requires extra sensibility.
Basic ethics would advise against dating somebody over whom you have power, or who has power over you.
Some companies have no-dating policies.
Getting caught could mean getting fired.
Even if your workplace doesn't prohibit dating between colleagues, you should make every effort to keep your romantic interest discreet when on the clock.
Limit your flirting to your lunch break and after work.
You certainly don't want to make anyone uncomfortable or give superiors a reason to say that you're distracted from your job.
If your place of employment is not an option, consider other places where lots of people meet.
For example, smile at hotties in the supermarket.
Or join a gym to get fit.
There you'll find people who care about looking good and improving themselves, and you'll boost your own health as well.
Another option is your local community college; try a course in salsa dancing, Ultimate Frisbee, or pottery.
Any sort of course that allows interaction will do, and you'll know that whoever is there probably shares some of your interests.
You needn't be a barfly to meet date worthy people.
Just make an effort to be in groups more often, and your opportunities will multiply!
For example, women might joke that all the good men are gay or married.
But people who claim that nobody is available just aren't trying hard enough! There are plenty of eligible singles out there; you just have to learn where they congregate.
Some people are turned off by the idea of bars.
They believe that since they dislike bars and nightclubs, then there isn't anywhere to go.
However, most lasting relationships were initiated in places other than watering holes.
After all, people don't make the best dating decisions when intoxicated! A great place to start can be your place of employment.
After all, you probably spend half of your waking hours there anyway.
Furthermore, you probably have a lot in common with people who have selected the same industry.
An added bonus is you know that your person of interest is gainfully employed! Of course, dating a co-worker requires extra sensibility.
Basic ethics would advise against dating somebody over whom you have power, or who has power over you.
Some companies have no-dating policies.
Getting caught could mean getting fired.
Even if your workplace doesn't prohibit dating between colleagues, you should make every effort to keep your romantic interest discreet when on the clock.
Limit your flirting to your lunch break and after work.
You certainly don't want to make anyone uncomfortable or give superiors a reason to say that you're distracted from your job.
If your place of employment is not an option, consider other places where lots of people meet.
For example, smile at hotties in the supermarket.
Or join a gym to get fit.
There you'll find people who care about looking good and improving themselves, and you'll boost your own health as well.
Another option is your local community college; try a course in salsa dancing, Ultimate Frisbee, or pottery.
Any sort of course that allows interaction will do, and you'll know that whoever is there probably shares some of your interests.
You needn't be a barfly to meet date worthy people.
Just make an effort to be in groups more often, and your opportunities will multiply!
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