Are you desperately in love with a girl who is you close friend for many years and you need to know how to make that longtime friend your girlfriend? If so you need to be willing to do a few things that may be a bit scary and a few things you may not realise to turn the tables and start getting HER to chase after YOU.
Sounds like a good deal right? But how can you do this you may be thinking when she never shows that interest to you at all? Some guys make some serious mistakes here and either confess their love for their hot girl and get rebuffed or try to be so close and friendly with the girl that they think they will somehow fall in love through persistence of presence.
Both are dead end roads.
Instead you need to understand just one main thing: If a Girl Considers You a Close Friend They Will Not Be Able To See You As a Potential Lover! Understand this fact and the next steps make more sense and become easier.
You are tagged as "friend" and psychologically and biologically to a woman this means you are not to be seen in a sexual or romantic light at all! She will never change this fact unless YOU make some changes to how you act so that the tag of friend becomes blurred and get replaced by "potential boyfriend".
So how to get a friend to be your girlfriend knowing all this? A few hints you might need are:
Sounds like a good deal right? But how can you do this you may be thinking when she never shows that interest to you at all? Some guys make some serious mistakes here and either confess their love for their hot girl and get rebuffed or try to be so close and friendly with the girl that they think they will somehow fall in love through persistence of presence.
Both are dead end roads.
Instead you need to understand just one main thing: If a Girl Considers You a Close Friend They Will Not Be Able To See You As a Potential Lover! Understand this fact and the next steps make more sense and become easier.
You are tagged as "friend" and psychologically and biologically to a woman this means you are not to be seen in a sexual or romantic light at all! She will never change this fact unless YOU make some changes to how you act so that the tag of friend becomes blurred and get replaced by "potential boyfriend".
So how to get a friend to be your girlfriend knowing all this? A few hints you might need are:
- Stop being available all the time.
- Keep your conversations over the phone or internet short.
Use this as a jumping off point to make pseudo dates. - Create exciting and memorable experiences with her not just spending more time with her.
- Show your alpha side - be decisive, don't put up with her guff, be strong and show leadership.
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