Is your wife a wanton or a "duty wife"? Nobody wants to have someone feel that it is a "duty" to make love to them.
You can change this situation with just four simple techniques.
Try it yourself tonight.
1st Technique.
If you have a "duty wife" in this respect, then you need to change something or it will remain the same.
First you need to get to her head in order to get to her body.
That is essential.
Try mending fences and tell her you will do whatever is necessary to make it right.
This is very powerful.
2nd Technique.
Open the lines of communication.
They must be closed because nobody wants to make love a "duty.
" As you do this you can also bring in some affection.
Ask her what type of affection that she would really love and appreciate.
Put together the affection and communication, without sex at the beginning, and see how she opens up.
3rd Technique.
Give her honest affection on a daily basis.
She may bring it up, or you may gently have to bring it up, but the subject of what she's always wanted as a sexual fantasy will come up.
Let her do most of the talking and plan a little sex game and scenario.
After all, its her fantasy and her sex game.
Therefore, she should really enjoy it.
4th Technique.
Slowly, and tenderly, fulfill her sexual fantasy.
You may have to go very slow, and with lots of light touching.
Eventually she will get very turned on and begin to trust you.
Lightly touch her entire body, one part at a time.
Let her tell you when it is time to move on to another erotic spot.
Don't rush it.
This is good advice even if your wife is a very willing, sensual participant.
Learn to tease and please her.
Learn to give her honest affection with no expectation of sex.
Sure, you really want it, but if you take your time she will want it even more.
You can judge this based upon what she says to you.
Make her beg for it and then you'll know she truly wants it and is not a "duty" wife.