Do You Miss Your Ex - How To Cope With?
One of the most difficult situations to cope with is a break up. It is also one of the most undesirable things that should have been avoided at any cost. But if it has happened, then it is a fact of life. Considering how much trouble you have taken to woo your ex lover, even the possibility of splitting up will look unthinkable. But even the unthinkable sometimes becomes the inevitable. Since you can't put the clock back, all you should focus on is how to cope with the break up.
Are you missing your ex? I ask this question because with some people, the break up appears to be a relief from the tormenting love life. A life of bickerings, quarrels and bitter recriminations will be something anyone will like to put an end to. But if you have loved your ex passionately and if the break up has happened due to some misunderstanding and hasty decisions, you will soon begin to pine for your love life. You will feel that you miss your lover very badly. In this situation, the challenge of coping up assumes significance.
Your first impulse may be to get back with your ex. This is often both a possible and desirable course. But what if this course appears impossible in your case. Are you going to waste the rest of your youth pining for your lover who has left you for some reason. Please understand that it is alright to love someone and then break up with him or her. This is not the end of the road for you. You might have disliked and even resented some of what your ex lover had said or done. May be you expressed your feelings but he or she didn't like your doing it. This might have led to a break up. Accept this as a closed chapter and focus on the future.
You miss your ex because there were certain things about him or her you liked. But then you broke up with them because you didn't like certain things about them! The missing feeling is a result of a vacuum. The best way to fill this vacuum is to start moving actively with your friends and giving yourself a good time. If you come across a loveable person and if he or she also takes an interest in you, then start a new relationship. Once you do this, you will soon be able to erase the memories of your past love life from your memory.
One of the most difficult situations to cope with is a break up. It is also one of the most undesirable things that should have been avoided at any cost. But if it has happened, then it is a fact of life. Considering how much trouble you have taken to woo your ex lover, even the possibility of splitting up will look unthinkable. But even the unthinkable sometimes becomes the inevitable. Since you can't put the clock back, all you should focus on is how to cope with the break up.
Are you missing your ex? I ask this question because with some people, the break up appears to be a relief from the tormenting love life. A life of bickerings, quarrels and bitter recriminations will be something anyone will like to put an end to. But if you have loved your ex passionately and if the break up has happened due to some misunderstanding and hasty decisions, you will soon begin to pine for your love life. You will feel that you miss your lover very badly. In this situation, the challenge of coping up assumes significance.
Your first impulse may be to get back with your ex. This is often both a possible and desirable course. But what if this course appears impossible in your case. Are you going to waste the rest of your youth pining for your lover who has left you for some reason. Please understand that it is alright to love someone and then break up with him or her. This is not the end of the road for you. You might have disliked and even resented some of what your ex lover had said or done. May be you expressed your feelings but he or she didn't like your doing it. This might have led to a break up. Accept this as a closed chapter and focus on the future.
You miss your ex because there were certain things about him or her you liked. But then you broke up with them because you didn't like certain things about them! The missing feeling is a result of a vacuum. The best way to fill this vacuum is to start moving actively with your friends and giving yourself a good time. If you come across a loveable person and if he or she also takes an interest in you, then start a new relationship. Once you do this, you will soon be able to erase the memories of your past love life from your memory.
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