If your relationship is on the rocks, or you have already broken up with your girlfriend, then it can be quite a hard task to try and save your relationship.
It can be very worrying that if you say the wrong thing or make the wrong move, then you will lose your loved one for good.
More often than not, what you think is the right thing to do or say to your partner is wrong.
You should really be doing the exact opposite of what you think you should be doing, for example, you probably want to text or call them, when in fact you should just try and play it cool.
A Word of Warning! Do not dismiss the techniques you are about to learn, although you may not understand how or why they work, and they may go totally against what you think should work, these techniques are proven to work no matter how desperate and hopeless your situation seems.
Step #1: Accept That Your Girlfriend Has Left You This is a tough one to handle as you are probably missing your girlfriend immensely, however it's important that you try and accept the breakup.
The reason you should accept the breakup is to give your ex girlfriend some breathing space and more importantly, time to start missing you.
If you just continue trying to convince them that they should give you another chance, then the chances are that you will ruin any hope of getting back together.
Step #2: Do Not Contact Your Ex Girlfriend I know you may be ready to close your browser right about now, but just hold on a minute, as this technique works like a charm! It shows to your ex girlfriend that you are serious, and not only that, it helps you accept the breakup.
By not contacting your ex girlfriend at all you are giving yourself time to calm down and overcome why you broke up in the first place, it also give your ex girlfriend time to miss you.
This has also given you time to put step #3 into action.
Step #3: Get Out And Enjoy Yourself This is probably the very last thing that you want to do at the moment, you are at an all time low, and going out with your friends is the last thing on your mind, however, it's important that you do try and relax and get out of the house for a while.
Firstly, it will help keep your mind off the whole breaking up situation, but secondly, and most importantly, when your ex girlfriend sees that you are getting on with your life and don't seem at all phased by the break up, then she's going to want you back even more, she is going to start to miss you, and think about you more, she even may become a little jealous.
It can be very worrying that if you say the wrong thing or make the wrong move, then you will lose your loved one for good.
More often than not, what you think is the right thing to do or say to your partner is wrong.
You should really be doing the exact opposite of what you think you should be doing, for example, you probably want to text or call them, when in fact you should just try and play it cool.
A Word of Warning! Do not dismiss the techniques you are about to learn, although you may not understand how or why they work, and they may go totally against what you think should work, these techniques are proven to work no matter how desperate and hopeless your situation seems.
Step #1: Accept That Your Girlfriend Has Left You This is a tough one to handle as you are probably missing your girlfriend immensely, however it's important that you try and accept the breakup.
The reason you should accept the breakup is to give your ex girlfriend some breathing space and more importantly, time to start missing you.
If you just continue trying to convince them that they should give you another chance, then the chances are that you will ruin any hope of getting back together.
Step #2: Do Not Contact Your Ex Girlfriend I know you may be ready to close your browser right about now, but just hold on a minute, as this technique works like a charm! It shows to your ex girlfriend that you are serious, and not only that, it helps you accept the breakup.
By not contacting your ex girlfriend at all you are giving yourself time to calm down and overcome why you broke up in the first place, it also give your ex girlfriend time to miss you.
This has also given you time to put step #3 into action.
Step #3: Get Out And Enjoy Yourself This is probably the very last thing that you want to do at the moment, you are at an all time low, and going out with your friends is the last thing on your mind, however, it's important that you do try and relax and get out of the house for a while.
Firstly, it will help keep your mind off the whole breaking up situation, but secondly, and most importantly, when your ex girlfriend sees that you are getting on with your life and don't seem at all phased by the break up, then she's going to want you back even more, she is going to start to miss you, and think about you more, she even may become a little jealous.
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