Do you feel like no matter what you do it is the wrong thing? Does it seem like no matter what you try you just seem to push your boyfriend further away? Does your relationship just seem hopeless right now? I am here to tell you that all is not lost.
If you are willing to put in the work, you can get your ex boyfriend back.
I am going to assume that you are serious about getting your ex boyfriend back or why else would you be reading this.
Be careful what signals you are sending out.
You may be sending him signals that make him pull away without either of you even knowing why.
Don't come across as too needy or anxious as this will send him running and quick.
Are you smothering him with phone calls or text messages? Are you trying to make him feel sorry for you? I am here to say it is not going to work.
Actually the opposite is going to happen.
Give him some space to evaluate things.
Allow him some room and time to miss you.
If this is you, put the brakes on so you don't do any further damage.
So what then can I do to get my ex boyfriend back? Glad you asked, try this instead.
Try something new.
Give him some space.
Like I said before give him some space to miss you and to think about his feelings for you.
Allow your self to become a mystery to him again.
Men love a challenge.
Do your own thing.
You are not just sitting around waiting for him to come back right.
Show him that you are a confident self supporting woman and that he would be lucky to get you back.
Take this time to work on yourself.
Become the best you that you can be.
If there is a area of your life that you would like to improve, now is the time.
You need to allow your ex boyfriend to remember why he fell in love with you in the first place.
This may take some time.
You need to be patient and understanding.
If it is meant to be he will miss you as much as you are missing him.
Let him know you are there without smothering him.
This is not the time to force your way back into his life, you are only going to push him further away.
Remember give him a little space, don't smother him.
Let him know you are there, but let him pursue you.
Let him be the aggressor.
Allow him to rekindle the feelings that he had for you when you first started dating.
Getting your ex boyfriend may not be easy, but if it is truly what you want it will be worth it.
Good luck.