You and your girlfriend has a stupid argument that got blown way out of proportion and culminated in her leaving you.
While she certainly had some valid reasons for wanting the split, you cannot help yourself, you want to get your girlfriend back.
You know you can change, and you've tried to contact her in every way you can think of, only to receive silence from her end.
Is it time to pack it up and admit defeat? To you, it might also seem as though your girlfriend is playing mind games with you at the moment - trying to get back at you for what you said and did to her with her silence.
While it is understandable that you feel this way, it is likely that this is not her intention at all.
She is hurt and angry and needs some time alone to get past her negative feelings and work towards forgiving you.
If you really want to get your girlfriend back, let her have the time she needs - she'll come around before you know it.
This advice is much easier said than done, and before you cut of your ties, you do need to apologize to her in a genuine way - remember, she knows you better than anyone else, so she'll know if your apology is forced in any way - she needs to hear that you understand her hurt, respect where she is coming from, and do not intend on bothering her any further, as per her wishes.
Send this in a well written email or text if you cannot get her on the phone directly, but make sure that you own up to the hurt you have caused her.
It might seem that ceasing contact with your girlfriend is a strange way to try to get her back, but she said she needed time, so you are giving it to her, and then some.
You are also giving her time to begin to miss you as well.
Go out with your mutual friends and have a great time, and make sure to slip in nice comments about her here and there.
Tell your friends you never met a more kind hearted and wonderful woman in your life.
Tell them that you miss her like mad, but want to respect her wishes to end the relationship.
You can bet your bottom dollar that this will get back to her and she will be affected by your words.
Before you know it, she'll have realized what a good couple you made and how silly the argument that led to the split really was.
If you want to get your girlfriend back, follow the advice above and she'll be ready to give you another chance before you even know it.
While she certainly had some valid reasons for wanting the split, you cannot help yourself, you want to get your girlfriend back.
You know you can change, and you've tried to contact her in every way you can think of, only to receive silence from her end.
Is it time to pack it up and admit defeat? To you, it might also seem as though your girlfriend is playing mind games with you at the moment - trying to get back at you for what you said and did to her with her silence.
While it is understandable that you feel this way, it is likely that this is not her intention at all.
She is hurt and angry and needs some time alone to get past her negative feelings and work towards forgiving you.
If you really want to get your girlfriend back, let her have the time she needs - she'll come around before you know it.
This advice is much easier said than done, and before you cut of your ties, you do need to apologize to her in a genuine way - remember, she knows you better than anyone else, so she'll know if your apology is forced in any way - she needs to hear that you understand her hurt, respect where she is coming from, and do not intend on bothering her any further, as per her wishes.
Send this in a well written email or text if you cannot get her on the phone directly, but make sure that you own up to the hurt you have caused her.
It might seem that ceasing contact with your girlfriend is a strange way to try to get her back, but she said she needed time, so you are giving it to her, and then some.
You are also giving her time to begin to miss you as well.
Go out with your mutual friends and have a great time, and make sure to slip in nice comments about her here and there.
Tell your friends you never met a more kind hearted and wonderful woman in your life.
Tell them that you miss her like mad, but want to respect her wishes to end the relationship.
You can bet your bottom dollar that this will get back to her and she will be affected by your words.
Before you know it, she'll have realized what a good couple you made and how silly the argument that led to the split really was.
If you want to get your girlfriend back, follow the advice above and she'll be ready to give you another chance before you even know it.
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