You want to reduce your odds at finding her online.
It really isn't that difficult.
You can increase your luck at finding her online by first having a heart-to-heart with yourself.
Not with your friends...
not with your family...
but with yourself.
During this heart to heart, you need to figure out what you are looking for online.
Do you know? If not you may need to do a lot of digging prior to the soul searching.
My question to most singles is this; how will you know when you have or have not found the one for you? That always seems to puzzle me...
You can increase your luck at finding her online by browsing through many of the online dating sites.
I would personally start with the larger ones first.
Now you know "what" and "where" now we need the "how".
On your first outgoing emails be cautious.
Do not sling terms of endearment all over the place! Please do not start with the "babies", "darlings", "honey", etc.
It comes across as presumptuous and insincere.
That is not the reaction you want from her! Take the time to get to "know" her.
Keep romance and intimacy on the back burner for now.
Sometimes it is good to go with her "pace".
That will keep you from out running her! Increase your luck at finding her online by not making a nuisance of yourself.
After a few emails, make yourself a little scarce.
The old say that absence makes the heart grow fonder? Is true online as well as offline!