Does it even make sense to try to get your girlfriend back? Some people, they spend their entire lives searching and yet never find a lover whom they consider a soulmate.
And yet, what I think is even more tragic is when someone is certain they have found their soulmate, but that so-called soulmate chooses to end the relationship.
Do you find yourself in that situation? If so, you owe it to yourself not to give up trying to get your girlfriend back.
You instinctively feel that your future happiness depends on making this relationship work, and you're probably right.
You need to trust those instincts.
The fate of two people lies in your hands.
Sure, you could give up and try to move on with your life.
But I believe the right thing to do is to put your life, and her life, back on the right path.
If she is giving off any signs at all that say she might be willing to get back together with you, then I think you have to at least try.
But what signs should you look for? Here are a couple of examples: Whether to get your girlfriend back - Sign 1 Has she ever said she still wants to be friends? If she has, that's the best sign you could get that she still feels love for you.
The journey from friendship back to being more than friends is the simplest of all.
Whether to get your girlfriend back - Sign 2 Is she still willing to talk to you? This is another good sign she still has feelings for you.
Don't go overboard and contact her too many times, though.
Do some research and make a plan, and then take it slow.
Focus on the fact that she's not too far gone from you, and enjoy the sense of hope you feel.