Have you been trying to with the heart, affection and adoration of a good man, but you're failing miserably? Are you tired of being the only single in your group of married friends? Does it make you sick to see how happily in love they all are while you're still struggling to get a second date with a guy? Just as love can come with lightning speed to one girl, the other has to wait it out and work at it for years.
Unfair, I know.
But here's how you can increase your chances of having your next date turn into a loving relationship.
Take Inventory Stand in the front of the mirror and take a good hard look.
What's great? What's not so great? What can be camouflaged? What can be fixed? What must you simply accept? Change what you can to improve your overall appearance, and accept what you can't.
Then be proud and confident and don't dwell on what isn't right.
The same can be said for your personality.
While looks are important to a degree, it's really your personality that is going to determine whether a guy wants to spend time with you or not.
Are you pleasant or moody? Are you haughty or humble? Do you hog the conversation or are you an excellent listener? Find a middle ground that will leave him feeling good about being with you.
Analyze You Last Dates Go over your last few dates with a fine tooth comb.
While you were feeling good about yourself, telling him how fabulous you were, was he having fun? Was he fully engaged in the conversation or just politely listening as you rambled on? Was he truly impressed by all the accomplishments you listed off or did he feel you were deliberately trying put him down? Few guys want to hang around with the girl they just don't have a good time with.
Be honest and don't be afraid to really look at what you're doing when you're with men.
Can Sex Lead to Love? If you've taken to using sex as a tool that will bring you love, you've probably already realized how futile it is.
Being sexually open invites men who are simply looking for a sexually easy partner, nothing more.
If you want love to be the heart of your relationship you need to give him something to love, not simply something to lust over.
Win his love by connecting with every aspect of his being and your relationship will last forever.