Do you know what is holding your self confidence back? As previously stated, as an adult, building self confidence is one of the most important things you can work on.
In part 2 of "Obstacles in Building Self Confidence in Adults", we continue with the obstacles that you should be aware of, that can keep you from achieving your goal of improved self confidence.
Does Your Old Self Keep Pulling You Back? Assume.
Assume.
Assume is the technique here.
Assume that you are a different person with habits you wanted to inculcate.
Imagine the way you would like to be.
Imagine a self confident you taking things in your stride.
Then try to bring into your daily actions the way you have imagined yourself to be.
"I dream by painting.
Then I paint my dream" was the technique what the great painter Vincent Van Gogh followed - and it obviously worked.
Your assumed self will make people react to you in a different way, according to your new self.
This will establish your new self to the world and will, in turn, help you keep up the new self before it becomes a habit - or second nature to you! If you behave indecisively and helplessly, you will invoke proportionate reactions from people around you, thereby reinforcing your previous self.
This throws you back again.
Remember that you cannot get ahead if you keep looking back.
Realize this and make the decision to stop sliding back.
Do Not Copy Self Confidence.
Do Not Try To Become Like Someone Else.
One of the greatest mistakes that people make when trying to increase their low self confidence is falling in love with an image of their icon who may be a sport star or a film star or any celebrity and then they try to be like them.
This is one of the greatest mistakes that people can commit when trying in increase their self confidence.
You have to be yourself at all costs.
Getting inspiration from these people is wonderful, but merely aping these guys won't take you anywhere.
There is no need for any two people in this universe to be exactly the same.
The challenge is to be yourself in a world that is trying to make you like everyone else! So, keep your eyes open to these obstacles and you will be able to improve your self confidence in no time!
In part 2 of "Obstacles in Building Self Confidence in Adults", we continue with the obstacles that you should be aware of, that can keep you from achieving your goal of improved self confidence.
Does Your Old Self Keep Pulling You Back? Assume.
Assume.
Assume is the technique here.
Assume that you are a different person with habits you wanted to inculcate.
Imagine the way you would like to be.
Imagine a self confident you taking things in your stride.
Then try to bring into your daily actions the way you have imagined yourself to be.
"I dream by painting.
Then I paint my dream" was the technique what the great painter Vincent Van Gogh followed - and it obviously worked.
Your assumed self will make people react to you in a different way, according to your new self.
This will establish your new self to the world and will, in turn, help you keep up the new self before it becomes a habit - or second nature to you! If you behave indecisively and helplessly, you will invoke proportionate reactions from people around you, thereby reinforcing your previous self.
This throws you back again.
Remember that you cannot get ahead if you keep looking back.
Realize this and make the decision to stop sliding back.
Do Not Copy Self Confidence.
Do Not Try To Become Like Someone Else.
One of the greatest mistakes that people make when trying to increase their low self confidence is falling in love with an image of their icon who may be a sport star or a film star or any celebrity and then they try to be like them.
This is one of the greatest mistakes that people can commit when trying in increase their self confidence.
You have to be yourself at all costs.
Getting inspiration from these people is wonderful, but merely aping these guys won't take you anywhere.
There is no need for any two people in this universe to be exactly the same.
The challenge is to be yourself in a world that is trying to make you like everyone else! So, keep your eyes open to these obstacles and you will be able to improve your self confidence in no time!
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