I have a special male friend. Lately, he has been feeling very angry with women. He is a wonderful, fascinating man but he has mild disabilities: a nearly-fatal car crash had disfigured part of his face. Sadly, ours is a truly shallow society where people appraise each other based on factors which are, at best, skin-deep. He wrote honestly in his online profile about the obstacles he must deal with in his life, looking for a woman who would be willing to dig deeper and overlook the obvious physical drawbacks.
As a result, quite a few women have responded and he's been excited about all the dates he was suddenly going on and the possibility of never being lonely again. Unfortunately, it wasn't that simple. All the women who met him appeared to deal with the situation the same way. Realizing they are not attracted to him physically, instead of handling the situation with integrity, they chose a cowardly way out: they gave him a fake phone number.
I saw his anger, pain and disappointment as my friend dialed one phone number after another, only to be told the number is not in service. My heart was going out to him, but I didn't know how to help. It occurred to me we could do a cell phone lookup for every woman who'd given him the wrong number, because he did know their full name and location. I know this may not have been the best solution for him, but what was? I was looking for a solution to cheer him up or even find a way to vindicate his crushed feelings.
Most of these women were not in the phone book, because fewer and fewer people have landlines any more. We kept our fingers crossed, hoping the cell phone lookup can help unearth their cell phone numbers. It did. Turns out, calling the correct phone number of every cruel female on his list was therapeutic enough to dissolve his pain and gave us a chance to have some laughs. People who have been dealt a more cruel hand in life are usually stronger and don't dwell on adversities for too long. The laughs we had, as one after another of his dates mumbled apologies on the other end! It's good to know one can turn to a cell phone lookup for emotional satisfaction.
As a result, quite a few women have responded and he's been excited about all the dates he was suddenly going on and the possibility of never being lonely again. Unfortunately, it wasn't that simple. All the women who met him appeared to deal with the situation the same way. Realizing they are not attracted to him physically, instead of handling the situation with integrity, they chose a cowardly way out: they gave him a fake phone number.
I saw his anger, pain and disappointment as my friend dialed one phone number after another, only to be told the number is not in service. My heart was going out to him, but I didn't know how to help. It occurred to me we could do a cell phone lookup for every woman who'd given him the wrong number, because he did know their full name and location. I know this may not have been the best solution for him, but what was? I was looking for a solution to cheer him up or even find a way to vindicate his crushed feelings.
Most of these women were not in the phone book, because fewer and fewer people have landlines any more. We kept our fingers crossed, hoping the cell phone lookup can help unearth their cell phone numbers. It did. Turns out, calling the correct phone number of every cruel female on his list was therapeutic enough to dissolve his pain and gave us a chance to have some laughs. People who have been dealt a more cruel hand in life are usually stronger and don't dwell on adversities for too long. The laughs we had, as one after another of his dates mumbled apologies on the other end! It's good to know one can turn to a cell phone lookup for emotional satisfaction.
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