- 1). Establish a routine. Pets need to know that their food, playtime, nap time, potty breaks and affection are going to be there at the same time every day. Providing security through a routine will make your pet feel as if their place in your life and heart is stable and they will be less likely to express jealousy.
- 2). Make sure your pet knows she isn't being replaced by a new person or animal in your life. Ensure that you give your dog or cat lots of extra attention during times of transition.
- 3). Do not leave the pet alone with the object of his jealousy--especially if the object of the jealousy is a baby, child or pet. Monitor any interaction until you are sure the pet's jealousy has been resolved.
- 4). Reward your pet when he exhibits good behavior with the object of his jealousy. If your dog sits politely while you care for your baby, be sure to give him a treat and reinforce this behavior. If your cat lets you pet the new kitten without hissing, acknowledge the good behavior by giving both pets a treat.
- 5). Give your pet time to adjust to changes in your life. While a new love interest, spouse, baby or pet may be an exciting event for you, in the beginning it's a threat to your dog or cat's place in your life. Most pets will adjust eventually, especially if you make an effort to show them that your love for them hasn't diminished.
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