- Because gifts are opened publicly at a wedding shower, many are tempted to purchase a fancy, flashy or expensive gift in order to impress. Before you shop, set a budget and make it what you truly can afford. Often the gift will be a reflection on how well you know the bride. If she is a close friend, you may spend more. For a less-close friend or family member, you may wish to spend slightly less.
- Once you have a budget in mind, decide what type of gift you would like to purchase. Most engaged couples register for gifts, and this information may be obtained from a shower invitation or from a friend or family member of the couple. Another option is to visit www.weddingchannel.com, which allows you to search the bride's name to discover if any online registries are available for viewing.
If the shower follows a particularly theme, such as "Stock the Bar," choose a registry item such as crystal, wine glasses, corkscrews or martini shakers.
If the shower does not have a theme, typical registry items, such as towels, sheets or fine china may not seem like exciting items, but they are really appreciated. - If nothing on the couple's registry appeals to you, consider some contemporary items that can have a personalized flair, such as a coffee table book about where the couple is going on its honeymoon, a bathrobe embroidered with the bride-to-be's new last name, magazine subscription, movie or theater tickets, museum membership or luggage.
- Many people question whether giving a gift certificate at a bridal shower is appropriate. The answer is yes, but to a certain degree. Balance what is considered an impersonal gift (a gift card) with a personal touch--such as a thoughtful card or letter. It is important to appear as if you have put a significant amount of thought into the card and gift. You may want to explain why the gift card is a good fit for the bride and groom.
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