I know there are so many stories about Thai women and how they are only after money from Western men and yes I know many of them are true.
But I also know that this only represents a small amount of Thai women and does not mean all Thai women are like that.
I also know that it could be just as easy to say the same about Farang (Western) men as this story will illustrate.
The topic of this post might be "Farang (Western) man betrays Thai woman" but it has a happy ending.
This is the story of a good Thai woman and a good Western man who despite many setbacks over the past 4 or 5 years have remained strong in their commitment to each other, but it was not always so good.
She is Thai Chinese mixed, 40, well educated and comes from Bangkok.
He is 47 and is from America and also well educated with a good profession in Engineering.
They have been happily married now for 4 years with no children and they both love to travel and share many interests in common.
But they have a sad and unfortunate situation.
They have a very unfortunate situation because although they have applied twice she is unable to be granted a Visa to live in America and so for 4 years now they have to live apart only seeing each other when he visits Thailand regular to see her and her family.
But they remain strong and both love each other very much and still want to be together and they are not prepared to give up.
I remember last year how she cried when she rang me because her visa was denied again for the second time and she also told me that he was also not in good health and that the stress of not being able to bring her to live in America did not help his health either.
But before this happiness there was something even more sad which is at the cause of their problem today.
You see many years before she met her husband she had another Farang boyfriend.
They had met in Thailand and she had been talking to him for many months and they had planned a life together in America and so he had arranged a Visa for her to visit him in Washington, America for some length of time.
She was so happy and she felt very in love with him and he with her.
He had promised her a wonderful life together and so she went to America with a beautiful dream in her heart.
But when she got to America something terrible happened.
She found out that he already had another woman who was a Farang (Western) woman and he had said nothing about her, pretending to be single all this time.
He had hidden the fact that he was already in a committed relationship but had started a new one with many false promises.
She was devastated, confused and hurt and felt her dreams had been destroyed.
Can you imagine how she felt to be alone in America with only shattered dreams to keep her company? She had very little money because she had given up her job in Thailand as they would not allow her to keep it if she was away for so long and he had also promised to look after her, but now she had nothing.
As fortune would have it she had a Thai relative in LA and decided to contact her because she didn't know anybody else in America.
All she knew was she didn't want to be in this relationship any longer and needed to leave him as soon as she could and so she set off for LA to stay with her relative until she could get back to Thailand.
So maybe you wonder what the problem was? She had a broken heart and broken dream but she could just leave this guy and try to get on with her life.
Well the thing is that the guy was not happy about her leaving him.
Even though he had been dishonest and destroyed her trust and her dreams he decided to cancel her sponsorship Visa and told the American Immigration department he did not know where she was or why she had left.
He said nothing about the real reasons why she had left.
Now this may not seem like a big problem until now when her applications for a visa to America to live with her genuine and loving husband keep being denied.
Although it is impossible for the Immigration Department to say why it seems very likely the situation with her ex boyfriend has something to do with it.
So not only did he destroy her dreams and trust at the time his actions still have effect on her life now many years later.
But incredibly she has not let this make her lose her faith in love.
She is a good woman who is not chasing money and she loves her husband very much and will stand by him even though she cannot be with him in America and even though he is not in good health.
He also will stand by her even though it is not his fault they have a problem with the Visa.
They both remain strong in their love and their belief.
This is the real message in this story...
that even though life can seem difficult or even cruel sometimes we must never give up belief.
The woman in the story didn't fear and she never lost her faith.
She didn't turn around and say all Farang men are bad or even all men are bad and dishonest.
She didn't lose her way like that.
She continued to be open and eventually she has found some happiness even though it still seems difficult.
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But I also know that this only represents a small amount of Thai women and does not mean all Thai women are like that.
I also know that it could be just as easy to say the same about Farang (Western) men as this story will illustrate.
The topic of this post might be "Farang (Western) man betrays Thai woman" but it has a happy ending.
This is the story of a good Thai woman and a good Western man who despite many setbacks over the past 4 or 5 years have remained strong in their commitment to each other, but it was not always so good.
She is Thai Chinese mixed, 40, well educated and comes from Bangkok.
He is 47 and is from America and also well educated with a good profession in Engineering.
They have been happily married now for 4 years with no children and they both love to travel and share many interests in common.
But they have a sad and unfortunate situation.
They have a very unfortunate situation because although they have applied twice she is unable to be granted a Visa to live in America and so for 4 years now they have to live apart only seeing each other when he visits Thailand regular to see her and her family.
But they remain strong and both love each other very much and still want to be together and they are not prepared to give up.
I remember last year how she cried when she rang me because her visa was denied again for the second time and she also told me that he was also not in good health and that the stress of not being able to bring her to live in America did not help his health either.
But before this happiness there was something even more sad which is at the cause of their problem today.
You see many years before she met her husband she had another Farang boyfriend.
They had met in Thailand and she had been talking to him for many months and they had planned a life together in America and so he had arranged a Visa for her to visit him in Washington, America for some length of time.
She was so happy and she felt very in love with him and he with her.
He had promised her a wonderful life together and so she went to America with a beautiful dream in her heart.
But when she got to America something terrible happened.
She found out that he already had another woman who was a Farang (Western) woman and he had said nothing about her, pretending to be single all this time.
He had hidden the fact that he was already in a committed relationship but had started a new one with many false promises.
She was devastated, confused and hurt and felt her dreams had been destroyed.
Can you imagine how she felt to be alone in America with only shattered dreams to keep her company? She had very little money because she had given up her job in Thailand as they would not allow her to keep it if she was away for so long and he had also promised to look after her, but now she had nothing.
As fortune would have it she had a Thai relative in LA and decided to contact her because she didn't know anybody else in America.
All she knew was she didn't want to be in this relationship any longer and needed to leave him as soon as she could and so she set off for LA to stay with her relative until she could get back to Thailand.
So maybe you wonder what the problem was? She had a broken heart and broken dream but she could just leave this guy and try to get on with her life.
Well the thing is that the guy was not happy about her leaving him.
Even though he had been dishonest and destroyed her trust and her dreams he decided to cancel her sponsorship Visa and told the American Immigration department he did not know where she was or why she had left.
He said nothing about the real reasons why she had left.
Now this may not seem like a big problem until now when her applications for a visa to America to live with her genuine and loving husband keep being denied.
Although it is impossible for the Immigration Department to say why it seems very likely the situation with her ex boyfriend has something to do with it.
So not only did he destroy her dreams and trust at the time his actions still have effect on her life now many years later.
But incredibly she has not let this make her lose her faith in love.
She is a good woman who is not chasing money and she loves her husband very much and will stand by him even though she cannot be with him in America and even though he is not in good health.
He also will stand by her even though it is not his fault they have a problem with the Visa.
They both remain strong in their love and their belief.
This is the real message in this story...
that even though life can seem difficult or even cruel sometimes we must never give up belief.
The woman in the story didn't fear and she never lost her faith.
She didn't turn around and say all Farang men are bad or even all men are bad and dishonest.
She didn't lose her way like that.
She continued to be open and eventually she has found some happiness even though it still seems difficult.
If you enjoyed this story article and would like to read more like it just go to Thai Girlfriend Advisor website where I share plenty of advice, tips and information about Thai Women, thai Culture and Intercultural relationships
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