Have you ever thought about the power of positive singleness? Just think about what you could accomplish if you were positive and single rather than single and hating every minute of it.
What do you think you could accomplish in a month or a year? The truth is that you could accomplish a great deal if you made some positive changes in your life now rather than moan about the fact that you are single.
I mean, how much energy are you putting into being miserable? Why not put that energy to good use and improve yourself, your situation and your relationship readiness? There are several things that you can do now while you're single to positively impact the type of person you will be in a relationship.
Taking the time to do so now will not only give you a positive attitude about being single, it will determine your level of happiness and contentment when you do become involved in a relationship.
The following are ways that you can use your singleness to improve your relationship readiness: o Get to know yourself.
There are a lot of people out there who really don't know themselves at all.
And if you don't know yourself, how can you expect someone else to get to know you? Take this time to get to know you.
What are your likes? What are your dislikes? What is important to you in life? You need to know the answers to all of these questions and more before you can share those answers with someone special.
o Work on problem solving skills.
When you're in a relationship, there will be several skills that you will need to have in order to make that relationship harmonious and peaceful.
If you don't already possess good problem solving and negotiation skills, you should work on them now.
Even if you feel like you are okay in this area, there is always room for improvement.
o Save money and improve your financial situation.
Being single is a perfect time to save money.
You can live cheaply and put some money aside to be used to purchase a home or save for a family.
You can also take a lot more investment risks when you're single than you can when you have a family to provide for.
If you want to start a business, do it now.
That way it will be stable and provide a good living for you and your partner.
The time to improve your relationship readiness is before you are actually in a relationship.
So, do not sit idly by and waste your single time.
Use this time to improve yourself and improve the type of relationship you will have in the future.
Remember; you are not merely biding time, you are investing in your future.
The things you do now will directly impact your happiness when you do get married.