You finally got the courage to pop the question to your girlfriend, so you setup an unforgettable moment to ask her to be your wife. Everything went perfectly and she said yes. Now the hard part begins, planning the wedding. Many people think that the husband is exempt from all of the planning of the wedding, because the wife and her mother take care of all of the planning. However in my experience this is not completely true. When my wife and I were planning our wedding, I was involved with quite a few things that I never thought I would have been involved in.

The first thing that I recommend doing is hiring a wedding planner. A wedding does not sound like a big deal, but for everything to work out the way you want it, you really need a professional to orchestrate all of the details. Also this will allow you and your fianc the opportunity to enjoy the planning more, and to help not get too stressed out before the big day. Our wedding planner was extremely helpful, and when our flowers were running late, she took care of everything before my wife and I even noticed there was a problem.

Another major piece of advice that I can give is make sure that you are on-time for all appointments that your fianc makes regarding the wedding. If she has a meeting to speak to a florist, or a baker for the wedding cake, or a walk-through of the church, make sure that you are there and on-time. Your fianc is already extremely stressed out, especially as the big day approaches, so she does not need to worry about you being there or not. Also I think women sometimes relates being late to not caring, so this can cause much bigger problems down the line, so make sure you are there on-time. If you follow these two main pieces of advice your wedding should go very smoothly, and you will live happily ever after!