Avoidant personality formation is mainly due to inferiority complex.
Psychologists believe that inferiority originates in childhood.
It can be a feeling full of unfitness and pain.
It also can be a kind of mentality, such as despising himself which incompetent and not qualified and suffering resulting from the feeling, but also a physical defect or because of some mental defect (such as intelligence, memory, personality, etc.
) resulting despise myself, consider themselves better than others in certain aspects of psychology.
Specifically, the inferiority of the produce are the following reasons: 1.
Lack of self-knowledge, underestimate their own.
Everyone always another person as a mirror to know themselves, if others made their own assessment of the lower, especially those who are more authoritative assessment will affect their own knowledge, thereby underestimating their own.
It was found that personality than the introverted person, more willing to accept a low rating but not to receive a high rating; in comparison with others in the process also like to take their own weaknesses and strengths than others, so the more discouraging than the more, the more inferior than the more.
2.
Negative self-talk inhibition of self-confidence.
When faced with a situation of each person, the 100 would be the first to measure the ability to cope with self.
Some people because of lack of self-awareness, and often think "I can not", because there was a prior negative self-talk, it will inhibit the self-confidence, increased tension, psychological burden, the effect would certainly not good work.
This result will form a negative feedback effect, affecting subsequent behavior, this vicious circle, so that further increase the sense of inferiority.
3.
Frustration effects.
Some nerve processes because of high tolerance to low sensitivity, minor setback will be a heavy blow to them, become negative and pessimistic and inferiority.
In addition, physical defects, sex, origin, economic condition, political status, work unit and so are likely to be the causes of inferiority.
This inferiority complex is not properly eliminated, over time became a part of personality, resulting in the withdrawal behavior and failing to stop avoiding the attitude, the formation of avoidant personality disorder.
Psychologists believe that inferiority originates in childhood.
It can be a feeling full of unfitness and pain.
It also can be a kind of mentality, such as despising himself which incompetent and not qualified and suffering resulting from the feeling, but also a physical defect or because of some mental defect (such as intelligence, memory, personality, etc.
) resulting despise myself, consider themselves better than others in certain aspects of psychology.
Specifically, the inferiority of the produce are the following reasons: 1.
Lack of self-knowledge, underestimate their own.
Everyone always another person as a mirror to know themselves, if others made their own assessment of the lower, especially those who are more authoritative assessment will affect their own knowledge, thereby underestimating their own.
It was found that personality than the introverted person, more willing to accept a low rating but not to receive a high rating; in comparison with others in the process also like to take their own weaknesses and strengths than others, so the more discouraging than the more, the more inferior than the more.
2.
Negative self-talk inhibition of self-confidence.
When faced with a situation of each person, the 100 would be the first to measure the ability to cope with self.
Some people because of lack of self-awareness, and often think "I can not", because there was a prior negative self-talk, it will inhibit the self-confidence, increased tension, psychological burden, the effect would certainly not good work.
This result will form a negative feedback effect, affecting subsequent behavior, this vicious circle, so that further increase the sense of inferiority.
3.
Frustration effects.
Some nerve processes because of high tolerance to low sensitivity, minor setback will be a heavy blow to them, become negative and pessimistic and inferiority.
In addition, physical defects, sex, origin, economic condition, political status, work unit and so are likely to be the causes of inferiority.
This inferiority complex is not properly eliminated, over time became a part of personality, resulting in the withdrawal behavior and failing to stop avoiding the attitude, the formation of avoidant personality disorder.
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