- 1). Appreciate your partner's unique qualities. Often, when people cheat it has little to do with sex. Everyone needs to feel appreciated and it is up to you to provide this for your partner. Don't harbor resentments and let irritation build up to walls of silence. Without expecting anything in return, tell your partner how great he/she looks, smells, is talented or skilled at something, and don't be stingy with general praise. When you freely love your partner, you will be loved in return.
- 2). Tame the jealousy monster. Relationships have little tolerance for jealousy. Live your life being faithful, and assume your partner is doing the same. If you have insecurities, talk to your partner about them, but don't attack. Sometimes all you need is a little reassurance to feel "warm and fuzzy" again.
- 3). Avoid temptation. During a rough patch, even the happiest of couples can find themselves facing moments of temptation. When insecurity settles in, it is like a medicinal salve when someone strokes your ego. And when that certain someone makes it obvious that he/she finds you interesting, funny or impressive -- watch out! If you are feeling insecure, you are at your most vulnerable for being a cheater.
- 4). Stop thinking that the grass is greener on the other side and longing for what you don't have. Look at your significant other and appreciate her goodness, and devote your life to loving your partner. Enjoy life now and don't look for happiness elsewhere. Be with your partner in mind, body and soul. Enjoy this thing called love while you have it.
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