Having someone break up with you especially when you least expect it is one of the most devastating things a person could endure. An experience like this also brings out both the best and the worst in all of us. But if you want to get your ex back, it's better if it brings out the former than the latter. Here are 4 steps that will help you in achieving that goal.
1. Accept the fact that he/she broke up with you - Not being able to do this and staying in denial is a guarantee that you'll never get him/her back. This would also prevent you from sulking thus making it easier to either move on or straighten up your act. Two things that every ex lover would appreciate.
2. Be honest with yourself - When someone breaks up with you it's a natural reaction to either be too defensive by not accepting any responsibility for what happened or to think that everything's your fault. Neither of those two things will help you out. Look at the situation objectively and analyze what happened. If you were at fault, take responsibility and make a commitment to yourself to make you a better person.
3. Stop calling him/her - After doing the first two steps, it's very tempting to give your ex a call and tell him/her how much you've changed for the better. But will it do you any good? The answer is a resounding "NO". Instead of doing that give yourself and your ex some time apart and make sure your common friends see the new you. Eventually your ex will know about this and pique his or her interest. There's a possibility that your ex will be the one who will contact you.
4. Send him/her an email - Calling will make you look desperate and texting is too informal. Sending your ex an email about how things are going great after the break up and thanking him/her for everything and ending it in an abrupt way (with something like..."you know what?...) will definitely elicit a response.
Now that the stage is set, it's up to you to close the show. Even if things don't pan out with the two of you, doing all these things will make you a better more confident person and that's a characteristic anyone wants in a partner.
Pay Close Attention Here-
Now listen carefully! Take 2 minutes to read the next page and you'll discover a stunning trick which will have your ex begging you to take them back. There is a set of easy to follow psychological tricks which will make your ex crawl back to you within a few days guaranteed. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page before it's too late and time runs out-Click Here
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Feel free to use this article as long as the links are kept live.
1. Accept the fact that he/she broke up with you - Not being able to do this and staying in denial is a guarantee that you'll never get him/her back. This would also prevent you from sulking thus making it easier to either move on or straighten up your act. Two things that every ex lover would appreciate.
2. Be honest with yourself - When someone breaks up with you it's a natural reaction to either be too defensive by not accepting any responsibility for what happened or to think that everything's your fault. Neither of those two things will help you out. Look at the situation objectively and analyze what happened. If you were at fault, take responsibility and make a commitment to yourself to make you a better person.
3. Stop calling him/her - After doing the first two steps, it's very tempting to give your ex a call and tell him/her how much you've changed for the better. But will it do you any good? The answer is a resounding "NO". Instead of doing that give yourself and your ex some time apart and make sure your common friends see the new you. Eventually your ex will know about this and pique his or her interest. There's a possibility that your ex will be the one who will contact you.
4. Send him/her an email - Calling will make you look desperate and texting is too informal. Sending your ex an email about how things are going great after the break up and thanking him/her for everything and ending it in an abrupt way (with something like..."you know what?...) will definitely elicit a response.
Now that the stage is set, it's up to you to close the show. Even if things don't pan out with the two of you, doing all these things will make you a better more confident person and that's a characteristic anyone wants in a partner.
Pay Close Attention Here-
Now listen carefully! Take 2 minutes to read the next page and you'll discover a stunning trick which will have your ex begging you to take them back. There is a set of easy to follow psychological tricks which will make your ex crawl back to you within a few days guaranteed. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page before it's too late and time runs out-Click Here
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Feel free to use this article as long as the links are kept live.
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