What would you do if your ex girlfriend does not answer the phone, cuts off your telephone call even if she answers the phone and she doesn't talk to you or see you? This might be a hopeless situation, but there are still few avenues left.
1. Indirectly through mutual friends let her know you are still available
In Movies or TV shows especially in romantic comedies you see regularly a plot of broken hearted man going out or pretending to go out with other girls and making her jealous to get her back. But the reality is different and this can easily backfire on you. Even if she was starting to miss you, if she finds out you are going out with other girls she will think you are emotionally detached from her. Now that she doesn't talk to you make sure indirectly let her know that you are still available.
2. Give time and space to yourself and her
It's easier said than done. But don't waste your energy on negative thoughts. Try to give a space and time to yourself and her. Start something that will enhance your confidence. It might be learning a new skill or spending more time with your favorite hobbies that you love. She will see you can manage your life back and respect your strength unexpectedly.
3. Write a handwritten letter
She doesn't want to talk to you so avoid a phone call. The option is your well thought handwritten letter rather than a text message or an email. I know this is outdated old fashioned but it works as most of the women open the handwritten letter. You will at least get a chance to convey your feelings. By writing a letter you can collect your thoughts and revise contents without any impulsive verbal emotional words which make situation worse. If you find it difficult to put in your own words, ask your female friends or maybe try sample drafts online. The look and feel of the letter is as important as the words. Ger a nice stationary put it in a matching envelope and send it off.
4. Keep it light hearted/upbeat
If she allows you to talk to her again, keep the mood upbeat. Don't start begging her to see you, or saying sorry for what you did wrong, arguing over the cause of the breakup. Who would like to see a person who is in the dark or aggressive mood? It is awkward and uncomfortable for her!! Instead, give her an impression that seeing you again will be fun and worthwhile and won't involve any blaming or complaining. Try to make her smile and comfortable. Try to let her guard down and eliminate the bad taste from the break up.
If you really want to get back togerher even when she won't talk to you, it can be done. Tell mutual friends to let her know indirectly that you are still available, give space and time to yourself and her, collect yourself, and then send her a letter to make contact again.
1. Indirectly through mutual friends let her know you are still available
In Movies or TV shows especially in romantic comedies you see regularly a plot of broken hearted man going out or pretending to go out with other girls and making her jealous to get her back. But the reality is different and this can easily backfire on you. Even if she was starting to miss you, if she finds out you are going out with other girls she will think you are emotionally detached from her. Now that she doesn't talk to you make sure indirectly let her know that you are still available.
2. Give time and space to yourself and her
It's easier said than done. But don't waste your energy on negative thoughts. Try to give a space and time to yourself and her. Start something that will enhance your confidence. It might be learning a new skill or spending more time with your favorite hobbies that you love. She will see you can manage your life back and respect your strength unexpectedly.
3. Write a handwritten letter
She doesn't want to talk to you so avoid a phone call. The option is your well thought handwritten letter rather than a text message or an email. I know this is outdated old fashioned but it works as most of the women open the handwritten letter. You will at least get a chance to convey your feelings. By writing a letter you can collect your thoughts and revise contents without any impulsive verbal emotional words which make situation worse. If you find it difficult to put in your own words, ask your female friends or maybe try sample drafts online. The look and feel of the letter is as important as the words. Ger a nice stationary put it in a matching envelope and send it off.
4. Keep it light hearted/upbeat
If she allows you to talk to her again, keep the mood upbeat. Don't start begging her to see you, or saying sorry for what you did wrong, arguing over the cause of the breakup. Who would like to see a person who is in the dark or aggressive mood? It is awkward and uncomfortable for her!! Instead, give her an impression that seeing you again will be fun and worthwhile and won't involve any blaming or complaining. Try to make her smile and comfortable. Try to let her guard down and eliminate the bad taste from the break up.
If you really want to get back togerher even when she won't talk to you, it can be done. Tell mutual friends to let her know indirectly that you are still available, give space and time to yourself and her, collect yourself, and then send her a letter to make contact again.
SHARE
