What is the biggest stopping point in getting back together with your ex? Its your feeling of whether or not you should attempt to get him or her back. You probably think that they are not in love with you. Its a major stopper in any plans of winning them back. However, if you want your ex back and need to know if there is a chance for the both of you, there is a pretty easy way to find out if its even possible.

Actually, you have to look at it from a certain standpoint. Using a scale, there are two opposite ends. One end has the love and hate emotions while the other end is geared toward the apathy or indifference emotions. Those people who suffer the love/hate emotions tend to get plenty of reaction. However, those who fall on the indifference side will show little or no emotion at all.

Okay, so where you do you fall with your ex? Start by trying to contact him or her. How do they respond to your contacts? Do they try to reach you as well? If it seems like the conversation is forced or he/she doesnt really call you back, then its likely you fall in the indifference scale. If thats the case, how do you change his/her mind? How can you make them want you back so that you are on the better end of this scale?

Its definitely better to be on the love/hate end of the scale. When you are, he/she is more likely to initiate conversations, call you back or see you every once in awhile. It usually means that they feel you are a part of their lives. When this is the case, you can win your way back into their good graces and heart.