It's hard to fight off the feelings that you have when it comes to love and if there is a guy you are still crazy about, you might be wondering about whether or not you have a chance at being able to get him back. You feel as though you want that more than anything else, yet there is a part of you that just isn't sure if that is going to be possible. Is it impossible to make him want you back or should you just count your losses and try to find a way to get over him?
Nothing is impossible, but whether or not you get him back depends on several things. If you were the one that broke up with him, then the odds that you are able to get him back are a little more on your side as opposed to if he was the one that ended the relationship with you. Usually, when a guy gets dumped by his girlfriend, one of the first things that he thinks about is finding a way to win her back. So, if you were the one that ended the relationship with him, it might actually be pretty easy to get him back.
What If He Dumped You?
Now, if he was the one that ended the relationship, you'll have to work a little bit harder to try and make him want you back as his girlfriend. Don't think that this means that it is going to be too hard to make him feel that way, just know that it will probably take a little more effort if he was the one that dumped you and it wasn't the other way around. You can still get him back, it will probably take a little more time, though.
What Should You Do?
Because it will take a little more time and effort if he was the one that dumped you, you want to make sure that getting him back is really what you want. It would be a shame to waste your time and energy trying to make him feel like he wants you again, only to come to the conclusion that you really don't want him back after all. Once you have made the decision that you DO really want him back, you need to find a way to get close to him again without it seeming like you are trying too hard to get his attention. Do that and you should be able to find a way to flirt with him just enough to make him feel like he desires to be with you again.
Nothing is impossible, but whether or not you get him back depends on several things. If you were the one that broke up with him, then the odds that you are able to get him back are a little more on your side as opposed to if he was the one that ended the relationship with you. Usually, when a guy gets dumped by his girlfriend, one of the first things that he thinks about is finding a way to win her back. So, if you were the one that ended the relationship with him, it might actually be pretty easy to get him back.
What If He Dumped You?
Now, if he was the one that ended the relationship, you'll have to work a little bit harder to try and make him want you back as his girlfriend. Don't think that this means that it is going to be too hard to make him feel that way, just know that it will probably take a little more effort if he was the one that dumped you and it wasn't the other way around. You can still get him back, it will probably take a little more time, though.
What Should You Do?
Because it will take a little more time and effort if he was the one that dumped you, you want to make sure that getting him back is really what you want. It would be a shame to waste your time and energy trying to make him feel like he wants you again, only to come to the conclusion that you really don't want him back after all. Once you have made the decision that you DO really want him back, you need to find a way to get close to him again without it seeming like you are trying too hard to get his attention. Do that and you should be able to find a way to flirt with him just enough to make him feel like he desires to be with you again.
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