PEOPLE MARRY WHEN THEY FALL IN LOVE
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Marriage is neither a bowl of jelly nor a path lined with roses, but it can be compared to a rough river that you need all your wits to navigate until you are smoothly sailing again. some issues to be discussed within the marriage are would be can your partner handle the problems that arises during marriage,would he or she be willing to get professional help when the going gets tough, as well as discussing infidelity, infertility, aging parents, job layoffs or unexpected illness or death, is he or she aware about the predictable stages that couples pass despite their deep love for each other, does he or she know that although marriage is the greatest institution established on earth, it is only for the strong-hearted and it only takes one partner to end a marriage and finally discuss with your spouse under what circumstances would he or she feels that the marriage can be considered as over.
WHAT ARE THE SYMPTOMS OR SIGNS OF IMPENDING MARITAL DISASTER?
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Jealousy between you and your spouse wont work, it will only make the boat tip causing the marriage sooner than you think. Of course, this is reliable and scientifically tested, but it is worth the try. It's up to you whether to make the first move of putting your marriage back together. If your spouse becomes secretive and prefers the company of their new friend Joe, then ask your spouse to tell you more about Joe and also let your spouse know that you would like to meet Joe. If your spouse stays on one side of the bed while sleeping and intimacy has become a forgotten item on your agenda then this is a red big flag that your marriage is falling apart. Drive your spouse senseless with your tactics and they'll love you for it. If you feel that your marriage may be coming to and end, try talking to your spouse about the problems within the marriage without nagging or blaming because those will only make the discussion more volatile.
WHAT WILL YOU TO DO WHEN YOU ARE AT THE BRINK OF MARRIAGE?
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A possible reaction to a marital crisis could be that you tried to control your spouse or talk your spouse into not leaving you. You can choose to change your reaction any time, because choices are not always final. Take notes of the following things not to do such as don't accidentally push your spouse out by your impulsive reactions or outbursts, don't push your spouse to file a divorce, don't shower your spouse with with insults and hurtful words, don't be overpowered by your rage, instead play it cool by keeping your temper intact. Face the problem with confidence and courage and this will change your life. When you are enrage, you become off balance, and could soon recover your balance.
WHAT ARE COMMON EMOTIONS FELT WHEN THERE IS MARITAL CRISIS?
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Take that action now. You should improve your communications skills to keep your marriage. When marriage is at the brink of disaster,learning more communications skills will only offer you and your spouse the use of better words to fight more often. The feeling of fear comes as a result of financial insecurity.
HOW DO I SAVE MY MARRIAGE AFTER MY HUSBAND COMMITTED INFIDELITY?
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Is your spouse really in love with the other party or was it just a fling? Was your spouse drunk when the affair started? Let your spouse lay their card on the table. Analyze the present consequences of the relationship if you decide to forgive him. It is better to have a third party as your spiritual adviser such an reliable friend who can act as a referee.
WHAT ARE SOME HELPFUL GUIDELINES FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE?
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Avoid the trap of telling your partner that he is wrong. Sometimes relationships are lost because the individual fears to face the truth. Learn to forgive. When the spouse leaves his home, it does not mean that marriage is over, it simply means that you have to work harder at it to get back happiness, Do not try to convince your partner that his decision to end the marriage won't work. Accept her weaknesses and failures after all nobody is perfect. Changing your partner's mind by your arguments is futile.
HOW CAN YOU PRESERVE YOUR MARRIAGE?
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Myth 3. Myth 4. By going on a date, there is no alternative than to dress up to show your spouse how attractive you still are. Leave the kids to your mother. Plan activities that are only for the two of you. This is not a hopeless situation because your spouse can always change his mind. Make your spouse your number 1 priority over your kids and work.
CAN MARRIAGE BE SAVED?
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Do you want to be part of the statistics? It is never too late to change and decide to turn over a new leaf. You will have to learn on your own and utilize the available resources around you. The result of disagreements depends on how both spouses are able to handle conflicts between them.
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SAVE MARRIAGEÂ Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â
SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE & AVOID DIVORCE
IF THERE IS HOPE, THERE IS A WAY
http://www.payzeno.com/a/SImon2011/19
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Marriage is neither a bowl of jelly nor a path lined with roses, but it can be compared to a rough river that you need all your wits to navigate until you are smoothly sailing again. some issues to be discussed within the marriage are would be can your partner handle the problems that arises during marriage,would he or she be willing to get professional help when the going gets tough, as well as discussing infidelity, infertility, aging parents, job layoffs or unexpected illness or death, is he or she aware about the predictable stages that couples pass despite their deep love for each other, does he or she know that although marriage is the greatest institution established on earth, it is only for the strong-hearted and it only takes one partner to end a marriage and finally discuss with your spouse under what circumstances would he or she feels that the marriage can be considered as over.
WHAT ARE THE SYMPTOMS OR SIGNS OF IMPENDING MARITAL DISASTER?
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Jealousy between you and your spouse wont work, it will only make the boat tip causing the marriage sooner than you think. Of course, this is reliable and scientifically tested, but it is worth the try. It's up to you whether to make the first move of putting your marriage back together. If your spouse becomes secretive and prefers the company of their new friend Joe, then ask your spouse to tell you more about Joe and also let your spouse know that you would like to meet Joe. If your spouse stays on one side of the bed while sleeping and intimacy has become a forgotten item on your agenda then this is a red big flag that your marriage is falling apart. Drive your spouse senseless with your tactics and they'll love you for it. If you feel that your marriage may be coming to and end, try talking to your spouse about the problems within the marriage without nagging or blaming because those will only make the discussion more volatile.
WHAT WILL YOU TO DO WHEN YOU ARE AT THE BRINK OF MARRIAGE?
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A possible reaction to a marital crisis could be that you tried to control your spouse or talk your spouse into not leaving you. You can choose to change your reaction any time, because choices are not always final. Take notes of the following things not to do such as don't accidentally push your spouse out by your impulsive reactions or outbursts, don't push your spouse to file a divorce, don't shower your spouse with with insults and hurtful words, don't be overpowered by your rage, instead play it cool by keeping your temper intact. Face the problem with confidence and courage and this will change your life. When you are enrage, you become off balance, and could soon recover your balance.
WHAT ARE COMMON EMOTIONS FELT WHEN THERE IS MARITAL CRISIS?
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Take that action now. You should improve your communications skills to keep your marriage. When marriage is at the brink of disaster,learning more communications skills will only offer you and your spouse the use of better words to fight more often. The feeling of fear comes as a result of financial insecurity.
HOW DO I SAVE MY MARRIAGE AFTER MY HUSBAND COMMITTED INFIDELITY?
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Is your spouse really in love with the other party or was it just a fling? Was your spouse drunk when the affair started? Let your spouse lay their card on the table. Analyze the present consequences of the relationship if you decide to forgive him. It is better to have a third party as your spiritual adviser such an reliable friend who can act as a referee.
WHAT ARE SOME HELPFUL GUIDELINES FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE?
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Avoid the trap of telling your partner that he is wrong. Sometimes relationships are lost because the individual fears to face the truth. Learn to forgive. When the spouse leaves his home, it does not mean that marriage is over, it simply means that you have to work harder at it to get back happiness, Do not try to convince your partner that his decision to end the marriage won't work. Accept her weaknesses and failures after all nobody is perfect. Changing your partner's mind by your arguments is futile.
HOW CAN YOU PRESERVE YOUR MARRIAGE?
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Myth 3. Myth 4. By going on a date, there is no alternative than to dress up to show your spouse how attractive you still are. Leave the kids to your mother. Plan activities that are only for the two of you. This is not a hopeless situation because your spouse can always change his mind. Make your spouse your number 1 priority over your kids and work.
CAN MARRIAGE BE SAVED?
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Do you want to be part of the statistics? It is never too late to change and decide to turn over a new leaf. You will have to learn on your own and utilize the available resources around you. The result of disagreements depends on how both spouses are able to handle conflicts between them.
===========================================================
SAVE MARRIAGEÂ Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â
SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE & AVOID DIVORCE
IF THERE IS HOPE, THERE IS A WAY
http://www.payzeno.com/a/SImon2011/19
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