Do you really know what makes men fall in love? Feel like he doesn't love you like he says? Wondering what it will take to get him to love you? In truth the reasons that men fall in love are not always the same as women and in many ways not as fast.
The reason for this is that men approach the idea of love differently than most women.
They will expect love to come out of a mutual understanding and respect for each other.
They need to feel like they are friends and dependent on their lovers.
This is because if they do not want to get hurt and they do not want to be taken advantage of.
They prevent this by having their lovers act as friends and confidants.
If they can talk to each other and really confide in each other, then it is unlikely that big issues will ever pop up and destroy the relationship.
People who are truly friends with each other and trust each other are unlikely to suddenly up and change their feelings toward the relationship.
You want to make him feel very secure in the relationship and the only way to do that is if he doesn't feel like you are keeping secrets from him.
Men once they start getting attached to someone will become very suspicious and vulnerable; they will use any problems or excuse to keep from admitting their feelings.
You want to reduce these problems and excuses as much as possible in order to get him feeling secure enough to tell you his feelings.
This is the other reason why you really want to have an open relationship with him.
If he feels comfortable telling you all of his secrets and problems, then he is more likely to feel comfortable telling you his feelings as well.
Being supportive of him and understanding of anything he tells you, even if you don't like what you hear, will really give him the confidence to tell you how he really feels.
This will get him to either tell you that he loves you or let you know the reasons why he may not feel comfortable saying it just yet.