- 1). Research the requirements for officiates in the particular state you wish to marry people in by looking at the state's government website. Most states require the officiant to be a member of the clergy of a recognized religion or an official of the government. If you do not desire to become clergy in any particular religion or attend years of classes, there are websites such as the Universal Life Church that do not adhere to a particular creed or faith but are still recognized as religions for the purpose of marriage.
- 2). Complete the requirements of an online church, the extensive coursework of a seminary or become a judge or justice of the peace. These options allow you to marry a couple in the majority of states. Requirements vary from filling out a form on a website, to completing several years of secondary school and passing exams. Some religions do not permit women or people of certain sexual orientation to become clergy, and you must already be an active member of the faith to gain entry into seminary.
- 3). Apply to the state to become an authorized officiant. Some states need a letter requesting permission to become an officiant as well as a copy of a certificate you received that shows proof of clergy membership. Some states require nothing else other than that you have become a clergy member and can prove it if asked. Judges and justices of the peace have their own requirements as well.
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