Can you make a guy fall in love with you just by being who you are? Modern women are bombarded constantly with these messages telling them to try to change the way that they look, act, and even feel if they are ever going to find real love with a man.
But is it true that you have to change who you are to make a guy fall in love with you? If you are not one hundred percent sure about the answer to that question, read reading.
There are some things that you need to know.
First, you cannot find your own value by looking at what other people think about you.
Just because you have not found the man who accepts and loves you completely for who you are does not mean that the guy is not out there.
So do not be tempted to just settle for less with a guy that you aren't totally in love with.
Think about the man that you want.
You should not have a perfect picture from the color of his eyes to the amount of money in his bank account and how many kids he wants to have.
Instead, you should have an idea of the KIND of person that you would like to be with.
This should be based much more on his values and lifestyle and likes and dislikes and not on his looks or cash flow.
Now, think about what type of woman would suit that man that you are thinking of.
Is she at all like you? The point behind this exercise is to show that you need to be the kind of person that the kind of man you want to be with would be attracted to.
If you are hung up on shallow aspects, then you should not expect to be with a man who is not just as obsessed with looks and money as you are.
You should already fit with this man that you have envisioned when it comes to essential values and lifestyle.
This means that you will be compatible and that your lives will meld well.
Of course, you will have differences and that is both normal and desirable.
But you should be a good fit.
For example, if your life is a mess, why would a man who has his life in perfect order want to be with you? To make a guy fall in love with you, you have to be honest with him and with yourself about who you are and what you want.
Then, the two of you will know that you are a good match.
But is it true that you have to change who you are to make a guy fall in love with you? If you are not one hundred percent sure about the answer to that question, read reading.
There are some things that you need to know.
First, you cannot find your own value by looking at what other people think about you.
Just because you have not found the man who accepts and loves you completely for who you are does not mean that the guy is not out there.
So do not be tempted to just settle for less with a guy that you aren't totally in love with.
Think about the man that you want.
You should not have a perfect picture from the color of his eyes to the amount of money in his bank account and how many kids he wants to have.
Instead, you should have an idea of the KIND of person that you would like to be with.
This should be based much more on his values and lifestyle and likes and dislikes and not on his looks or cash flow.
Now, think about what type of woman would suit that man that you are thinking of.
Is she at all like you? The point behind this exercise is to show that you need to be the kind of person that the kind of man you want to be with would be attracted to.
If you are hung up on shallow aspects, then you should not expect to be with a man who is not just as obsessed with looks and money as you are.
You should already fit with this man that you have envisioned when it comes to essential values and lifestyle.
This means that you will be compatible and that your lives will meld well.
Of course, you will have differences and that is both normal and desirable.
But you should be a good fit.
For example, if your life is a mess, why would a man who has his life in perfect order want to be with you? To make a guy fall in love with you, you have to be honest with him and with yourself about who you are and what you want.
Then, the two of you will know that you are a good match.
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