Unfortunately this plea from the heart that cries out "help me save my marriage" is normally silent and often never heard.
Too often our feelings are hidden deep inside and are only allowed to tear at our insides until it is too late.
Couples tend to enter a marriage thinking that it is going to be a life long cruise into marital bliss.
This is a mistake.
Marriage involves a journey on a road that is long and winding.
There are many obstacles on this road that must be confronted and maneuvered with care.
It is easy to take the wrong exit on the marriage road and wind up lost and frustrated.
The journey of marriage takes clear vision and patience.
When you get to the point that you are asking to help me save my marriage it typically means that you have reached a breaking point.
These breaking points, the serious potholes on the road to marital success can be traveled safely without any serious damage if you only look for the warning signs.
Many married couples reach that point on their journey where they finally blurt out "help me save my marriage".
They can save their marriage by adhering to the warning signs.
First of all you have to keep communication in the marriage.
You have to listen to each other's feelings.
Not simply listen but also hear and believe me there is a difference.
Compromise when needed.
This does not mean give up your stance but to simply be willing to give a little for the sake of the bond.
Divorce should always be a final option.
If you love your spouse make every effort to seek assistance or directions as you navigate the journey of marriage.