So you've fallen for him, and you want to make him love you too? Are you wondering what it takes to make him feel for you the way that you feel for him? Do you know what to do or where to begin? You're not alone if you are a bit perplexed by those male animals that we can't resist but can't understand.
Here are a few tips you can take to the bank that will put you into his heart and make him love you.
First, you need to know and believe that guys are just as soft and emotional inside as you are.
They have a high capacity and desire for love too, and if you can tap into the secrets that will open his heart, then you will find all the love you can handle.
They just take a different route getting there.
Maybe you think your guy is special - sensitive, soulful, and poetic.
The truth is, he's a caveman just like the rest of them.
He likes the same puppy chow as the studly jock and the rational businessman - and they are just as tender as he is.
He's got a billion swimmers in there that each want to fertilize a different egg, and the promise of what you've got buttoned up in your jeans is fascinating and irresistible to him.
If you want to make him love you, keep him close with the allure of all of the aspects and potential of your femininity, but keep your jeans buttoned for now.
Lust can be the kindling that starts the attraction with chemistry and sparks.
But true love is emotional and has to involve the whole person, or those sparks will burn out fast.
The brain is the real love organ.
Work on the relationship, the friendship, the deep inner knowledge of your man.
Be a sounding board for his problems and dreams and desires, and ask him the questions that will make him reveal his true inner self to you.
Find his pain and massage it into joy; find his vulnerabilities and give him comfort and ease; find his strengths and lean on him.
Touch him, hold his hand, put your hand on his knee at sensitive points in your conversation.
Be a whole person to him.
It won't be long before you are the one that he knows he can depend on, that has his back, that can bring him up when he's down.
Be careful not to be just a buddy.
He needs hugs too.
The warmth of your embrace and the sensual thrill of your touch will seal the deal.
Once you've gently worked your way inside of his life and his head, you have made yourself irreplaceable.
If you can make him need you, you can make him love you.
It's a short trip from his head to his heart.
Okay...
you can unbutton now.