Why would you have to earn his love? People just fall in love naturally, without any effort on the other persons part, right? Wrong.
They do in soap operas and movies, but not in real life.
In real life, if we want money, we have to earn it.
If we want a place on the team, we have to earn it.
It should be very logical to us, then, that if we want to make him commit to us, we have to earn his love.
Male psychology is not hard to figure out.
It is very similar to female psychology.
What kind of person are you attracted to when you want to make a friend? Some of the basics are that we want someone who will listen, someone who is fun, and someone who is interesting.
If we want to attract men, and especially attract that special man and make him fall in love and commit to us, the best dating advice would advise us to be the same kind of person that we are looking for and feel comfortable with.

• We want someone who will listen to us.
  When we are talking to a friend, how would we feel if they kept interrupting without letting us finish? How would we feel if she kept changing the subject? What if she monopolized conversations in order to talk excessively about what interested her? We would feel as though she is not interested in us at all; we would not really want her as a friend.
  The same is true with men.
  So be a good listener.
  Listen with the heart.
  Respond with fellow feeling to whatever he is saying.
  
• We want someone who is fun.
  Can you picture yourself being friends with someone who is all doom and gloom? Who is depressing and talks about their problems all the time? Is she fun to be with? No.
  There is a time for talking about problems, but not too much and not too often.
  Be fun.
  Smile.
  Talk about enjoyable things.
  Make people want to be around you.
  You will be much happier and more popular with many people, including Mr.
  Right.
  
• We want to be friends with someone who is interesting.
  Have you ever had a friend who, whenever you asked her a question she responded by saying, - I don't know.
  - or - I don't care.
  - Maybe you enjoy her company for other reason, but she would be more popular if had a little sparkle; a little something to add to the conversation.
  

If you want that special guy to fall in love with you, you have to earn his love - And you can do it.