How do you make a guy fall in love? Does it just happen, or are three things that you can do to trigger these feelings within a man? How does a relationship progress from casual dating to love and ultimately to commitment? If you are wondering what you can do to improve the chances that your guy will fall in love, keep reading for common sense advice about relationships.
Human beings are rarely satisfied.
It is human nature to continually work toward and strive for greater levels of success and satisfaction.
This is an admirable quality and one that men find very attractive in women.
There is one area however, where this drive for taking things to the next level can get a little tricky.
Men and women often have divergent goals when it comes to love and relationships.
Women typically get excited about the prospects for the future while men seem to waiver and hesitate about moving forward to something more serious.
What should you do if you are in a relationship with a great guy who doesn't seem ready for love or commitment? Be honest Women are often warned about not talking to men about things like commitment and marriage.
While it is wise to be selective about when and how you bring up these topics, it is equally important that you are honest with yourself and with a man about your expectations for the future.
It is a mistake to keep this information to yourself and then get upset when things don't seem to be headed in the direction you had imagined.
One of the best no pressure ways to find out how a man feels about love and commitment early on is to ask questions.
Find out what his family was like growing up.
Has a negative experience colored his view of commitment and marriage? If so, that could be a warning sign that there will be some challenges to overcome.
Find out what his future goals are.
Does he even mention settling down at some point? When it's your turn to share your thoughts about the future, be honest.
Saying something like "my parents had a great relationship and I want something similar for my own life" is much different than "I can't wait to get married and have a family.
" The first statement tells a man that you are thinking about the future and your ultimate goal is commitment with the right person.
The second statement says that you are too eager and anxious.
With the right approach, you can make a guy fall in love.
Present a continuous challenge Relationships grow when there is sufficient challenge to propel them forward.
Both positive and negative challenges are beneficial to growing relationships.
Negative challenges demonstrate your ability to cope and work as a team.
Positive challenges demonstrate your ability as a couple to achieve great results together.
Most people don't go looking for negative challenges.
They just happen and you have to be prepared when they do.
But you can create positive challenges within a relationship.
Encouraging him to pursue his ambitions is one way to challenge your man, but challenges don't always have to be serious.
Men love physical activity so why not use that to your advantage? Playful competitions can keep him interested and have him wondering what's next.
Keep the passion alive You want to keep reminding a man about why he was attracted to you in the first place.
Don't assume that because you snagged him, you can settle into neutral.
In fact, this is exactly what men fear will happen and is part of their resistance to love and commitment.
If you want to make a guy fall in love, you must first be honest.
Many men will tell you that it's hard to find a women who can be honest about her feelings without getting too emotional.
Also remember that men need almost constant stimulation and challenges to feel happy.
And finally, don't allow the passion to die.
Demonstrate to your guy that you know how to keep things exciting and you should have no problem getting the relationship to the next level.