Worldwide today , the increasing daily threat of divorce is increasing every single day and it has even become a challenging problems today threating mankind, even with the accompanying social and negative problems associated with it.
In the United States for example and in the western world generally, current statistics shows that over 50% of marriages contracted in the last 5-10 years usually end in divorce. I believe that your own marriage should not join this statistics but rather , you should be looking for unique ways and things to do to save your marriage, fix it and build your marriage back to an enduring and blissful marriage relationship with your partner, husband or wife.
But to be sincere, i want you to know that this is really an avoidable problem, if one just do the right things on time and have access to the right information and guide. The increasing level of divorce lawyers, divorce litigations , due to the expected benefits that may accrue to the women or men as the case may be, in property and asset sharing is not really in the best interest of the impending social and emotional problems, divorce really brings to anyone.
I want to certainly assure you that if you have the right information, guides and know what to do when you are face with impending threat or options of divorce, your marriage will certainly not lead to divorce. Knowledge, willingness and insight is what you need.
Different people from different backgrounds may be different in character , culture and personality , but generally the principles of love ,relationship and marriage all around the world is the same or is universal, it could only be adjusted to suit our cultural or national norms. Avoiding a situation that leads your marriage relationship to a break up or divorce as the case may be is possible, if you just try to avoid some of the relationship and marriage killers that we are going to x- ray here and it will certainly help you keep your marriage or fix your marriage back if there is any threat of a break up or divorce staring you in the face right now .
1.Do not promise or speak about why your partner should change in behavior or attitude towards you and your marriage but let your partner really see that you have really change from the person that they knew. In the first place, nobody can really change another person , it is only when a person shows willingness to change and God will help that person to change. One can only influence someone to change but cannot really cause a person to change if the person is not willing to change .You just have to accept this basic truth of life.
2.Start by changing yourself to be the right person for your partner by doing the right time , tolerating , supporting and appreciating your partner without being abusive to them and you will certainly see that your partner will start making attempt or effort to change by themselves because they have been able to come to terms to seeing the efforts that you have make to salvage the marriage .
3.So do not promise your partner that you will change and speak about it too without the person seeing any sign of improvement in you .With time , if you do not change , it becomes a problem for your partner and the relationship at the long run. So do not promise change and let your partner see the changes in you. Do not also impose change on your partner but try to positively change in your attitude and behavior hence indirectly your partner will be encourage and influence to change too.
4.You may asked, what do one need to change from in order to save your relationship or marriage and avoid a break up or divorce threat. You need to change from your bad behaviours that is not helping to build up your marriage and that it is a strain to you relationship. Change from habits , character traits or flaws and behaviours that you know already that is not helping your marriage in the best possible way .Bad behaviours , habits and characters are relationship or marriage killers in the long run , so try as most as possible to avoid it .
In the United States for example and in the western world generally, current statistics shows that over 50% of marriages contracted in the last 5-10 years usually end in divorce. I believe that your own marriage should not join this statistics but rather , you should be looking for unique ways and things to do to save your marriage, fix it and build your marriage back to an enduring and blissful marriage relationship with your partner, husband or wife.
But to be sincere, i want you to know that this is really an avoidable problem, if one just do the right things on time and have access to the right information and guide. The increasing level of divorce lawyers, divorce litigations , due to the expected benefits that may accrue to the women or men as the case may be, in property and asset sharing is not really in the best interest of the impending social and emotional problems, divorce really brings to anyone.
I want to certainly assure you that if you have the right information, guides and know what to do when you are face with impending threat or options of divorce, your marriage will certainly not lead to divorce. Knowledge, willingness and insight is what you need.
Different people from different backgrounds may be different in character , culture and personality , but generally the principles of love ,relationship and marriage all around the world is the same or is universal, it could only be adjusted to suit our cultural or national norms. Avoiding a situation that leads your marriage relationship to a break up or divorce as the case may be is possible, if you just try to avoid some of the relationship and marriage killers that we are going to x- ray here and it will certainly help you keep your marriage or fix your marriage back if there is any threat of a break up or divorce staring you in the face right now .
1.Do not promise or speak about why your partner should change in behavior or attitude towards you and your marriage but let your partner really see that you have really change from the person that they knew. In the first place, nobody can really change another person , it is only when a person shows willingness to change and God will help that person to change. One can only influence someone to change but cannot really cause a person to change if the person is not willing to change .You just have to accept this basic truth of life.
2.Start by changing yourself to be the right person for your partner by doing the right time , tolerating , supporting and appreciating your partner without being abusive to them and you will certainly see that your partner will start making attempt or effort to change by themselves because they have been able to come to terms to seeing the efforts that you have make to salvage the marriage .
3.So do not promise your partner that you will change and speak about it too without the person seeing any sign of improvement in you .With time , if you do not change , it becomes a problem for your partner and the relationship at the long run. So do not promise change and let your partner see the changes in you. Do not also impose change on your partner but try to positively change in your attitude and behavior hence indirectly your partner will be encourage and influence to change too.
4.You may asked, what do one need to change from in order to save your relationship or marriage and avoid a break up or divorce threat. You need to change from your bad behaviours that is not helping to build up your marriage and that it is a strain to you relationship. Change from habits , character traits or flaws and behaviours that you know already that is not helping your marriage in the best possible way .Bad behaviours , habits and characters are relationship or marriage killers in the long run , so try as most as possible to avoid it .
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